Signs That a Man Is In Love With You

Men hide their real feelings many times, because they are very afraid of rejection. Other times they are the lovers that feel attracted to every woman and start showing them their interest, only because they are thinking about sex.

If you care about revealing signs that a man is in love with you, even though he is trying to hide his feelings, pay attention to the following characteristics in his behavior:

1. He is indifferent to your presence, to a degree that makes you feel as insignificant as if you were non-existent.

2. He starts provoking you problems, in a camouflaged form, in order to have the chance to approach you without revealing his feelings.

3. He is too enigmatic, distant, unpredictable, strange, and never says anything about himself or his life.

Nothing romantic. But these are the real signs of his interest.

If he is in love with you, he is not going to give you flowers or start smiling each time he sees you for example, unless he is the kind of man who is simply looking for sexual pleasure.

In this case he won't be afraid to reveal his interest to you because he won't be your slave: on the contrary, he is going to use you as a sexual object, and he has no feelings for you.

When he is in love, he is very afraid to reveal his real feelings because he doesn't want to be your slave. He wants to dominate you, his girlfriend or wife, instead of being dominated by you.

Men have their masculine pride, and this is why they want to appear in society as if they were always very strong ...

Of course, there are exceptions, like the type of man that enjoy giving gifts and being protective, as if they were their partner's father. They have courage enough to reveal their feelings, believing that they will easily be able to conquer the woman they like with their charm and generosity.

These are exceptions, though.

Usually, you'll meet very afraid men, who have no courage to reveal to you their real feelings, and will try to make you do something in order to attract them, approach them, etc. while they will keep pretending that they are totally indifferent to your existence.

Be patient and try to help them somehow. If you encourage them, things will be easier for both of you.

If you are too shy and insecure though, your relationship with the man you love may be totally platonic; in other words: you'll only flirt from a distance, and nothing else.

Without your collaboration, he is not going to break the ice ...

On the other hand, you may be afraid to reveal to him your feelings, because he is too handsome, and many other women show interest in him.

In this case you have to be very careful, because he might be too proud and consider all women as sexual objects, without feeling anything for anyone.

Look for men who will love you and respect you, and help them approach you without making things too difficult. Avoid the very handsome types, because they are never loyal to any woman, and you'll be probably hurt by their behavior.
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01.25.2012
Emma Hainey
Really? I thought this would have been a man telling me that he's not interested in me. However there is this one boy I really do care about. We've kissed etc and talked a little he almost got to the extent of telling me he liked me but we never quite got there. There's been times we've been out and he's looked at me and just shrugged his shoulders at me raising his shoulders towards me for a slight second. I talked to him and he took my hand in front of every other girl in the room. I spent a night with him and we almost had sex but I was unsure about doing it that I kind of led him on slightly. I didn't mean it. Just very nervous. He gave me a back scratch though and said to me "I must love you to pieces" and when I wanted to go in the morning he paid me to get home. However after that when I've saw him around he's been so distant. I've caught him staring at me then quickly looking away. He later opened up to me then he withdrew himself again. Is that even love or interest?
01.24.2012
calvin hobbes
Christina Sponias you are a genius. I'm amazed that you have such insight on a man. What you say here is very true indeed. I, myself have been displaying these exact signs to a woman who I have developed feelings for. Your reasoning is spot on as well, I have feelings for the woman yet do not want her to know the nature of it because it would give her the advantage. Then I would become very vulnerable because my heart wants to be with her, yet my mind knows she could really take me for a ride, the heart would force all my decision making sadly. I guess women reading this would ask why I dont "be a man" and display the classic signs. Well the reason for that is also explained in this piece, I fear being rejected/let down. Point is she is unavailable and it would take a massive shift in her life for us to be together the way I see it. One place where I cant hide though is with my eyes, once they meet hers she sees the truth. And I can tell she knows how I feel when our eyes meet too
06.04.2010
Casey
There is a stark difference between a man who doesn't care and a man giving you the cold shoulder because he cannot express his emotions. I wholeheartedly agree. However, I am saying that a grown man with that level of emotional immaturity is not someone worth worrying about. If he cannot communicate interest in you how can you expect to be able to communicate about anything else as the relationship progresses? What you are encouraging here is for women to waste time examining the psyche of an adult child in the hopes that this man will eventually grow up enough to have a relationship. Hoping a man will change is a dangerous game that will occasionally work out in a woman's favor, but only rarely. Better advice: stop worrying about this one and find a man at your own emotional level. No matter how fantastic this man will be when he's ripe, the fact is that these signs all point to him being emotionally green. And green fruit will always leave a bitter taste in your mouth.
There is a difference between being completely ignored by a man because he really doesn´t care for you from being ignored by him because he is pretending that your presence doesn´t have any impact on him. You should pay attention to the various characteristics of his behavior in order to perceive many revealing details and understand the meaning of his reactions. You can be helped by the unconscious mind that produces your dreams and learn everything about his life and personality in dream messages. Here is an article about this matter: http://www.divinecaroline.com/22201/98308‐predictions‐perfect‐match All the best!
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