I know there seems to be so many of us out there just freaking out or over-thinking the dating scene, or there are those who are obsessed with bagging them that check list husband. Well guess what ladies? It’s actually okay to just be us and be young, if you’re a young female in your twenties, guess what? Stop. Stop trying to convince yourself for whatever reason that you just got to get hitched or being down on yourself just because sally sue is in some great serious relationship and you’re not. We all find love and commitment in our own time. There is no need to feel like you have to keep up just because your best friend just got that pretty little ring on her finger recently.
We’re young and we’re supposed to be enjoying life and experiencing it. If you wanna date great, but just because it doesn’t turn into something serious with bill doesn’t mean it’s the end of the world. Be young, focus on you, do what makes you happy. Go to school, workout, get a hobby, travel, live a little. I just love how society has most of us thinking we just have to get that hubby right away and do the whole house wife thing. I have nothing against those who are in their twenties and have found all that, I think that’s great! But for those of us that are the late bloomers, we need to learn to just be happy with what we have going, even think of how going out with different dates with different people as a good way to really understand what it is that we might really want in a man. Not being tied down and enjoying your great independence and freedom as a woman can be liberating even.
You should really enjoy it because there will always come a day in any woman’s life where you will miss those days of freedom. Single and in charge of your own destiny, doing as you please, choose whatever throw pillow you want with out having to ask. This does not mean you will regret finally settling down but that you will wonder where the days of your carefree youth went to.
