My Literary New Year’s Resolution

On New Year’s morning, my family gathers to write our resolutions for the next year. Each year we put our resolutions in our respective Christmas stockings, so we have pieces of paper from years past stashed in each one. My scraps usually list a particular weight I want to achieve by the next year, a weight I haven’t seen since the last century. This year I’ve given up dieting to get there and gone straight to begging the scale to lie. Annually, my husband writes that he wants to touch his toes, but his calf muscles have yet to comply. Nevertheless, we have fun looking at our successes and failures while contemplating what we’re going to work on for the coming year. 

This year I’m going to include a literary resolution. I was reading the Saturday WSJ article about 2009 resolutions of the famous. Nine people said they were going to write books, but only five of them were authors. So much talk about the end of the book while everyone is writing one. My 2009 literary resolution isn’t to write a book; my resolution resulted from a talk I heard about the future of book culture. One of the panelists, Andrew Tonkovich, editor of the Santa Monica Review and host of a weekly literary arts program on KPFK in Los Angeles, declared that we all have to be emissaries to build a literary culture. To do so, he aggressively changes conversations to what people are reading and the ideas in those books. He is trying to elevate the level of conversation to ideas that come from both fiction and non-fiction. My resolution is to join his band of emissaries.

I committing to trying to move conversations from the petty and mundane to what people are thinking about from the books they are reading. I frequently ask people what books they are reading if I know they’re a reader, but now I’m going to ask indiscriminately. If someone isn’t reading a book, I’ll ask why and follow up with a recommendation. (I firmly believe that there is a book that will lure in the most obstinate non-reader.) When someone tells me what book they are reading, I usually only ask, “Do you like it?” Now I’m going to ask more pointed questions (I have a teenager, so I’ve had practice at this).

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Which Virgina Wolff? The first time I read Mrs. Dalloway, I thought how much I was like a woman who lived one hundred years ago, which was comforting (that I wasn't nuts) and disturbing (I wasn't original). I'm hoping to read the "Lighthouse" book this year.
01.09.2009
Hope
I really enjoyed your article, as one of my New Years resolutions was to expand the type of books I have been reading. Lots of times I'll just pick up the latest paperback when I'm in the grocery store. So night before last I made a concerted effort to hit the library & checked out a book by Virginia Woolf, as well as ordered one to be sent over by Voltaire. Now I'm thinking it might even make my conversations more interesting!!!
01.08.2009
Gutsy Writer
Enjoyed your article and especially when you mentioned getting away from petty, mundane conversations. I find many conversations are that way and the older I get, the less patience I have. So I usually ask people about their travel plans, as I love to see the world and other cultures. If they don't have anything to talk about, I can now ask about them about books they've read. Thanks.
01.07.2009
Renee Brown
Hi, Kim - what a fun and unusual spin on the same-old, same-old. I am going to adopt your ideas and even think about them when I go through books. Fun stuff! Thanks for sharing!
01.07.2009
Nita Keesling
Kim, I loved this idea! I am always asking people what they are reading, but I love your follow-up questions. I will use this and join your quest to bring about a more literate culture. Thank you! Caitee
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