So Long, Farewell: What I Will Miss About the L Word

I was putting the finishing touches on this article when I heard that the L Word was being cancelled. I’d liked the series—most of my ideas about how to improve the show involved introducing more diversity. I wanted to see some working class issues explored. I wanted at least one character that was not super-skinny, and I would have appreciated the presence and discussion of some body issues. What I wanted most, though, was a real butch character—big and strong, with short hair and an attitude. I wanted a shot of reality thrown into the mix. My original article was academic—respectable for sure, but not that much fun.

When I heard that the show would only be coming back for eight more episodes, suddenly all of my opinions became irrelevant. I am sure the producers know exactly what is going to happen in the last season; they are probably already shooting. So even if my ideas had been good, any changes I suggested would now be pointless.

I was upset for about a minute and then I thought, well, why don’t I do a tribute to the show? After all, the airing of this series was an historical event—it was the first show of its kind. So I started thinking about what made the L Word so remarkable and groundbreaking. Was it a glimpse into lesbian reality? Yes. Did it relaunch actresses’ careers? Yes. Did it show powerful women and shatter stereotypes? Sure did.

But what was really arresting about the show? What kept gay (and straight) people tuning in for the last five years? Then it hit me. It’s the sex. It’s women fucking other women on TV. It’s women doing things to each other onscreen—things that I do and have had done to me. Of course, the show is amazing on many levels, but for me and everyone else I know, it was the sex that kept us gripped to our seats.

So, screw the theoretical deconstruction of the show. I want to celebrate all the juicy, hot sex the gals have given us over the years. In my last tribute to the L Word, I humbly give you my Top Three Sex Scenes of All Time (and one sex scene I wish they would have done!).

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i agreed on what you said in the tediousness of bette and tina's relationship and how bette was ever the suffering hothead. but being a gay man who isn't so much into the woman on woman sex scenes, they weren't what kept me going year after year on this brilliant series. it was well written and wonderfully engrossing. that is why i will miss it. and yes, too bad your original ideas of diversity would never see the light of day. but it's hollywood. i had to deal with pretty boy model types thru the whole run of QUEER AS FOLK. carmen was so beautiful and that she calmed the beast that was shane for just that long was something. ultimately, tho shane comes off as a lazy out of it selfish person which saddened me.
I really agree there is not diversity women can relate because they are gay but everything else could use alot of work but give ilene chakin credit doing what she did and opening up doors for others
04.04.2008
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Great article, Natalie! Yeah discussions about LESBIAN SEX!!! I would totally watch the D Word! PS - You and Drew would make a really cute couple!
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