It could happen at home, your workplace, family, your own spouse or children, even at church. But we will focus on your conniving female friend to set an example. How much do you believe in yourself? How much confidence do you have in yourself?
Having enough confidence in yourself will help you get through with your apprehensions. You know that you are not the conniving evil that your friend is exemplifying and moving on will be the best thing to do. However, you can and should confront your friend about it even if she might deny the falsehood of your accusation.
Or, you can:
1) Kick your friend’s ass, and then kick her friend’s ass afterwards
2) Ignore it
3) Act intelligently and wait for an appropriate time to discuss the issue, (who needs to go to jail anyway?)
Stand firm in your beliefs and for yourself and know that you are not making ‘it’ up. Your intuition speaks for itself, listen to it and heed to what your gut is revealing to you. If you felt it and thought about it, more than likely it’s true. But you are a smart woman and have a good judge of character. It’s the unnerving feeling that you felt to begin with that made you conclude to the manifestation of your shrewdness. Congratulations and good for you.
It’s time to find new friends. The following is a list of things to do to help you get rid of friends that you simply don’t need and can indefinitely do without.
1) Go through your phone and address book.
2) Clean up the friend’s list. (You don’t have to wait for a New Year’s resolution to start).
3) Go through the friend’s list, (and this includes male friends too), and ask yourself, “How is this friendship benefiting or worsening me in my life?”
4) Write a pro’s and con’s list and compare them. Scratch the names of the ones that have more con’s.
Some friends are good to keep, nobody is perfect, but some friends we can do without.
