Behind the Habit

By: Lorraine Dampier (View Profile)

I went to my friend and the next day we bought gifts and balloons and flowers for the sister. She was not allowed to have cake so we got her one of her favorite sweets.

Into the nursing home we went with our gifts. Everyone we passed wanted to know whose birthday. We went right up to sisters room, knocked on the door (you never could go into her room without knocking), entered with a cheerful “HAPPY BIRTHDAY.” The sister had a look of surprise I had never seen on someone’s face before. Tears began to stream down her face. My friend went over and hugged and kissed her and then I did.

“Who told you it was my birthday?” asked sister

“You did!” I said.

“When?” she asked puzzled.

“Last night when I was leaving.”

“I was making a joke.” She began to laugh and we joined and laughed until we were all crying. Then she stopped laughing then seriously said “We will pretend today is my birthday.”

Hearing all the commotion the other employees and residents wanted to come in and find out what had happened. We announced its sister’s birthday. Not letting anyone know it really was not.

One nurse stopped us outside and said, “it’s not sisters birthday.” We explained what had happened and we all began to laugh again until we cried.

Before the night had ended almost everyone in the community and the staff including the director of nursing stopped to wish sister a happy birthday.

I soon left to work at another facility. About a month later I had heard sister had passed away. She didn’t make it to her real birthday.

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posted: 02.16.2008
April Pritchett
What a sweet blessing this turned out to be. God diffently works in many wonderful ways. He gave her something he felt she needed and it came through you. What a awsome way to serve the Lord. Little ways that you don't even realize that you are doing. Through my picture of you, I'd say that you Pray every morning. Because through prayer he guides us through our day. Even helping us say the little things, that might trigger something in someone's heart. I Thank God for people like you. Thank you for your story. I have one that I wish you could read. But, I don't know how I could get it to you. I'd like your opinion. Hope to read more. April Pritchett LilRose96@aol.com
posted: 01.15.2008
MacArthur Park
God sends the caring to those in need of care! How blessed you are to be able to positively affect the life of someone who knew loneliness. Even the smallest act of kindness reaps huge rewards!
posted: 11.30.2007
Rebecca Brown
What a great story! Her "birthday" must've been meant to be.
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