Tips on How Not to Let Your Relatives Ring Your Holiday Bell!

Creating Holiday Harmony

Are you one of those people who dread the holidays? Last minute shopping, decorating disasters, difficult people to buy for, demanding kids—and most of all the run-ins with relatives!
 
If you’re anticipating a rerun of previous years where your relatives made you crazy and your holidays were filled with headaches, then you are sure to experience that again this year. Because the energy you put into dreading and anticipating will pave the way for more of the same. The energy—also known as the vibration—that you project in the world will manifest the reality you imagined.

However, you can begin to change all that just with your thoughts. You can use “personal frequency management” and visualization to manifest a truly happy holiday and keep the joy in the holiday season. By Consciously Creating your day—juggling work, shopping, cooking, tree trimming, kids, the wrangling of those pesky relatives, etc.—you can have the kind of holiday season you desire effortlessly and without hiccup.

In the next several pages are ten tips for creating “Relative Harmony” for the holidays.

1. Casting the Love Net

Well before they show up at your door or you arrive at theirs, when you begin planning your holiday, send your “love net”—your high vibration loving energy—out to your relatives—and keep doing it throughout the holiday season. Feel love toward them even in the most trying times. Know that love is patience and understanding. Plenty of loving energy can head off, diffuse, and transmute negative energy emanating from your relations. Ask for an unending supply of loving energy to pass into you from the Universe and through you to your family members.

2. Visualize

Take some quiet time each day and visualize just how wonderful your time with your relatives will be. In your mind, see them helping you instead of criticizing, offering support, staying out of the way, picking up after themselves, volunteering instead of demanding, loving the gifts you have picked for them, finding ways to make your time together joyful and loving.

Relish the emotions of these wonderful reunions. Thank the Universe in advance for granting this incredible camaraderie, goodwill, grace, and warmth. Then go ahead and visualize the rest of your day going smoothly, too!