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Single Widowed Mom

By: Theresa Hernandez (View Profile)

I am a single mom with four great kids! I had two babies and was four months pregnant when my husband was taken away from us. He was a loving father and a good husband. I was only nineteen years old and our financial stability was very limited. We lived with my mother in law in a crowded two bedroom apartment! I was depressed and felt very much alone. My husband worked twelve hours a day seven days a week and we hardly had any free time to ourselves! My husband soon learned that being home alone with two crying children and a pregnant wife was not easy! He soon learned to pitch in and help me out as much as possible.

One weekend we went to my mother’s house to stay for a party we were to attend on a Saturday. It was the first weekend he had off in three months. Instead they called him in on a Friday afternoon. (Needless to say it was Friday the thirteenth!) That day my brother in law and I were sick to our stomachs. My husband Jay had to cash his check and run to his mom’s house to attend to his brother. I waited just about all day to at least spend some time with him and our kids. Finally about 2 p.m. he came home and gave me a kiss. He turned around and said he had to go into work after all. I was furious because we had planned a whole weekend together as a family! All he could say to me was that it was overtime and we needed the money since the holidays were around the corner! I deeply felt bad because I thought I was only thinking of me and not the things that we needed so badly! So I graciously agreed that he was right. I watched him getting ready for work. Standing there looking at the man I love so much! As I walked away I knew deep down inside I was hurting! I wanted a companion I wanted my best friend back. But as soon as I turned around to walk away he said to me “We still have Saturday and I will dance with you and hold you close to me.” He was right and I knew we would still have time together!

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posted: 01.05.2008
Elizabeth Campbell
Thersesa, you are a strong woman. Many women would have given up after losing there husbands, especially at so young an age. You pulled together and rallied yourself for your children and that is amazing! Anyone who has survived what you did and come out ok should be proud of themselves. Hold your head high, you are an amazing woman!
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