Worried Mother

Hello again, I need to vent so I guess I will write some more about my daughter and granddaughter. She called me the other day and we talked for a short time. She returned my call from the other day. She said nothing about me seeing my granddaughter at all to me. Her and I have not seen eye to eye since she got this new boyfriend in her life this past May! Now she is engaged to him! He is very controlling and I don’t like him at all. I have my reasons! Since she meet him, he moved right in the first month, taking over my girls! I had a very close relationship with my girls and now it’s all gone, my heart is totally shattered!

She keeps my granddaughter from me and I know why because she is a very smart little seven-year-old and tells nana everything. I don’t understand my daughter at all anymore! People in my family tell me oh let her go and don’t call her anymore but they have no clue what it’s like until you walk in my shoes! It’s easy for someone to give you advice but they have no idea how this is all tearing me apart inside, I am so afraid that something is going to happen to my girls! This guy has already taken over my daughter, we have a big family and she doesn’t see or bother with anyone since he came into her life! I see so many red flags going off! I just don’t know what to do anymore.

I wrote her a letter but still haven’t sent it to her; she only lives ten minutes from me. That really bothers me that we are so close, but yet so far away! A mother and daughter have a very special bond at least we did! When she had my granddaughter, sven year s ago, it was scary for her, it was her first baby and we lived right next door to each other and I was always there to help! Now I am nothing! She took my heart and shattered it.

How can a women let a man come into their life and take it right over. She has told me things that he has done and it was not very nice. He has no respect for them at all! This is not like her to take this from a man.