A mother must need her children, and her children must need their mother. If that is missing, then the word mother and child are being wasted, as the mother is not a mother, and the child is not a child.
Life is difficult and sometimes we are faced with painful decisions. We must accept suffering as a way of growing up. And so, making choices to leave a marriage, breaking up the family, is almost the same as when our children decide to go out on their own. It is a choice that is difficult no matter who is making it and leaving someone behind.
We need to tell our children that we love them, we need our children to remind us also that their love for us will remain as we both walk in life’s journey and make tough decision throughout our lifetime. Do not live with regrets as we all must make tough decisions throughout our lives. Be happy with your decisions and live a wonderful, peace filled life!
Look to the horizon, remembering that we shall get through this and no matter what happens and that damage done in the past can be repaired … we will one day again feel whole.

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