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Twelve Signs He Might Be the One

By: Text in the City (View Profile)

You’ve been in your romantic relationship for sometime now and have begun to wonder if your boyfriend could potentially be “The One.” Swept up in the romance of it all, fantasies about long-term love or marriage can be difficult to deal with. The following are twelve signs that will help you to sort through your reflections and exciting thoughts about the man who just may be the love your life.

  • He understands. He always tries to see your side of things. This means that even if he’s seen you get upset or cry about something a hundred times before, he still tries to calm you down and makes you feel better.
  • He tells you. Oh those three special words, the words some men have major trouble saying. Well, if he says them often, count yourself lucky. Hearing him say “I love you,” and knowing he means every word, is proof that he’s one of a kind.
  • He shows you. We all know most men have trouble expressing their feelings with words. So, sometimes they use other forms of expression. Forms of expression include taking you out for dinner when he thinks you need a break from cooking or understanding that you might need some time to yourself. While you may like to hear those sweet whispers of affection from him, it’s a fact that actions speak louder than words.
  • He listens to you. Is he genuinely interested in what you’re saying when you talk to him? Does he give you his undivided attention during your conversations instead of having the television blaring in the background? It’s an important sign if he shows he’s really concerned about your feelings and especially what you have to say.
  • He’s happy around you. Are there smiles? Is there laughter? Excited to spend time with you and not his guy friends? Glad just to be with you? If he can’t get enough of you, it’s a sure sign that he’s really attracted and in love.
  • He compliments you. He notices when you change something about your appearance. He appreciates when you take the time to look great. When he looks you up and down admiringly with a little smile and tells you how beautiful you are, you know you matter.
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posted: 11.11.2007
Helen Not-of-Troy
Great story! I agree with Tekoa Storay too though. It's not a one way street. Especially if they guy is the one, make sure you show him too.
posted: 11.07.2007
Tekoa Storay
i think these are ways to find out if he is a good man, you can not say he is the one without realizing you find yourself doing all those things above for him in return, true love that last forever goes both ways.
posted: 11.07.2007
Christine 70
WOW! I have to agree with Eve. I believe I have found my Mr. Right! Every single thing you said points to what he does. I guess at times I have taken for granted what he does, but isnt that only normal. It is not often. He texts me out of the blue everyday to say I am awesome or I am a world changer or just that he is thinking about me. I love this man and even though I have been through some traumatic things with diffrent men he is the one God intended for me I know. Thank you for the wonderful story.
posted: 08.17.2007
Ms Gem
I dream of a man loving me like that..
posted: 07.30.2007
Eve Fisher
WooHoo! he passed the test! thanks for this confirmation that the man I have is indeed "the one." His attention has wavered on occasion from my riveting conversation when there's a baseball game on but I figure so have mine when one of my favorite shows are on. I think that getting beyond these primary signs, there are also some smaller signs of affection that really cement the fact to me that he is the one---like when he makes my favorite breakfast to surprise me or cuts an article out of the paper to share with me [this shows that he was thinking of me during the day], or when he just randomly does the most thoughtful thing ever without really thinking about it!
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