Twelve Signs He Might Be the One

By: Text in the City (View Profile)

  • He takes care of you. Is he your own personal guardian angel? Does he baby you when you’re sick and nurse you back to health? If the answer is “yes,” then it’s a pretty sure bet you’ve got a good thing going.
  • His friends and family like you. You can gauge how a man feels about you from the way his circle of friends and family treat you. If you are held in high regard, and they have embraced you as if you’re one of their own, it’s a fact he’s been telling them how happy he is to have you in his life.
  • He appreciates you. Telling you how proud he is of your achievements or praising you to his family and friends is a wonderful signal. It’s a sign he is in deep appreciation of who you are to him.
  • He asks for your opinion. He asks for your advice, considers it, and may put it to good use. When important decisions are at stake concerning him, he doesn’t just go ahead and decide on his own what he thinks is right.
  • He’s interested in what you want too. Let’s say you’re both watching television and you want to watch Desperate Housewives while he’d like to catch Twenty-four. You know how men are when it comes to the remote control! If he lets you watch your show of choice, not in a grudging manner, but because he wants you to be happy, you’ve got a winner. Give him extra points if he actually sits through it with you!
  • He makes you feel special. Finally, is he the kind of guy who’s always trying to keep the romance alive? Bringing you flowers or breakfast in bed are both wonderful ways to know he cares. If he’s always going out of his way to make you feel exceptional hold on tight, the man is a keeper.
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posted: 11.11.2007
Helen Not-of-Troy
Great story! I agree with Tekoa Storay too though. It's not a one way street. Especially if they guy is the one, make sure you show him too.
posted: 11.07.2007
Tekoa Storay
i think these are ways to find out if he is a good man, you can not say he is the one without realizing you find yourself doing all those things above for him in return, true love that last forever goes both ways.
posted: 11.07.2007
Christine 70
WOW! I have to agree with Eve. I believe I have found my Mr. Right! Every single thing you said points to what he does. I guess at times I have taken for granted what he does, but isnt that only normal. It is not often. He texts me out of the blue everyday to say I am awesome or I am a world changer or just that he is thinking about me. I love this man and even though I have been through some traumatic things with diffrent men he is the one God intended for me I know. Thank you for the wonderful story.
posted: 08.17.2007
Ms Gem
I dream of a man loving me like that..
posted: 07.30.2007
Eve Fisher
WooHoo! he passed the test! thanks for this confirmation that the man I have is indeed "the one." His attention has wavered on occasion from my riveting conversation when there's a baseball game on but I figure so have mine when one of my favorite shows are on. I think that getting beyond these primary signs, there are also some smaller signs of affection that really cement the fact to me that he is the one---like when he makes my favorite breakfast to surprise me or cuts an article out of the paper to share with me [this shows that he was thinking of me during the day], or when he just randomly does the most thoughtful thing ever without really thinking about it!
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