Looking for Mr. Nice Guy

I have two questions: when did men start getting so scared of us? and why do we always have to do the work?

Nice guys are great, they are a bit timid though. Us guys are completely stricken with fear when we contemplate approaching a woman we find attractive. Look for the nice guys in corners at bars hanging out with one or two friends casually looking your way with a bit of fear in his eyes. Smile and even give him a bit of a wave if you want him to come to you. Or better yet see when he approaches the bar and at the same time go strike up a conversation with him while waiting for your drink, just make sure when you invite him back to your table he doesn't see your other full martini ;)