How to Keep Him Calling Back

By: Cherry Norris The Dating Director (View Profile)


He STOPPED calling.

And guess what?

Jane is “whining” that the guy never calls like he used to.

Duuuuhhhh!

YOU trained him into it, Jane! You were annoyed when he called! You punished him for NOT doing it YOUR way!

Ladies, Pleeeaaassse!

When God gives you a gift of manna from the heavens say, “YES. THANK YOU. PLEASE.”

Don’t clobber him when he calls! Don’t push him away when he’s really into you! Don’t thwart his efforts by telling him you can do it yourself or you don’t need “that” or you can pay for it yourself! Geeezzz!

Say, “Thank you” when he calls. Say, “Yes!” when he invites you out for Thursday (although you want to go out on Saturday). And for God’s sake, say, “Please” when he offers to do something nice for you!

Ladies, if you can properly guide a man to give, protect and cherish you, EVERYBODY wins. HE wins because he feels good doing it. YOU win because you feel good receiving it.

So the next time a guy you like starts calling you TOOOOO much say, (altogether now) “Yes. Thank you. Please.” (Again ... “Yes. Thank you. Please”... and again ... )

And be HAPPY when he calls you back!

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posted: 05.09.2008
Jen Morgan
Be Careful : I had a guy call,txt,e-mail a lot !! He was sooooo into me!! He was not really my type but, I thought if he is so into me - he must not be so bad. I was with him for about 6 weeks... and I really fell for him! Guess What?? He had a girlfriend!!! Yikes-- He started getting distant and seeing me less. Then I heard through the grapevine he was "hot & heavy" with someone.
posted: 04.20.2008
Daruma
oh, and don't have an unlisted phone number or keep changing it!
posted: 04.14.2008
Jennifer
I read and liked this story, but I have a question. What if you are the one doing most of the calling? He calls me but I know I do the most calling is this a bad
posted: 04.09.2008
Suzanne Bastien-Adams
YAY..> i think this comes with age. I find that in my mid 30's now, I'm looking for someone to show me that kind of attention. After years with the "jerk" or not appreciating the sweetheart, I'm ready to find an attentive man! Great article!
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