Green Card Fraud Marriage Nightmare

Yes, I was a virgin when I got married. So you can say I was not experienced in that field. The honeymoon was really special for me and I was under the impression that he had no sexual problems. I later found some blue pills known as Viagra, hidden in the kitchen. It also dawned on me after, that was the reason he could never get aroused when I touched him. Life was so humiliating from that moment on because every time I wanted to make love he would get so upset and angry. I found myself asking for sex and he would turn me down. He even called me a “whore” once for asking. I turned over to the Mormon Bishop several times for advice and basically I was told that because we were married in “The Temple” that I was responsible as the wife to be understanding and patient. My life was pure hell after that. He started to be abusive physically and emotionally with me. Again every time I consulted the Mormon Bishop about this I was told that divorce was out of the question because it was a “Temple Marriage.” I also found out later by his own sister, that he had killed someone in Peru. That because his father had political connections there, he was able to get a visa to the United States.

Honestly, I truly believe that I was so brain-washed by that religion, that I withstood three horrible years of manipulation and abuse believing that things were going to get better. In the month of May of 2003, he finally got his Permanent Residency and got his Master's from San Jose State. Two weeks after that he asked me for a divorce. Finally the show he put on was over. I felt relived in a sense, but very angry at the same time. I immediately filed for an annulment of marriage. Stating that the marriage was based n fraud. I had no idea what I was in for.

I also contacted the INS and informed them about everything. They told me they were going to investigate the case but I have not heard from them till this day. The court meetings began, the lawyer's fees, filing papers—pure hell. On top of everything I have a disability. I suffer from severe depression. I was honest with him from the very beginning and told him everything about my condition. I even took him to meet with my doctor.