Relationships

By: Rena Heard (View Profile)

I enjoy my quite time and have learn to rest I tried going to the gym for a while stop doing that it was not for me so now I am taking yoga I enjoy that, it is great just to release all of the stress of the day and relaxing. Sometime I just wish that I was more out going but truthfully that is not how God made me I am a introvert and my husband is very out going sometimes he states that I am not social and that is an untruth I just do not fit with the people he hang out with I am a square peg trying to fit in a round hole. I will eventfully change some of my ways but I have to remain true to myself. I did promise him that I will get motorcycle license before he returns he longs for me to ride with him, I feel that he can not enjoy himself when I am with him at an event he tries to watch over me and make sure I am ok but I see in his eyes he want to cut loose and spend time with his friends and I am a hindrance so I would stay home or if we are away stay back at the hotel so he can be free to enjoy his time. Now there are times when I would want to go into a club and enjoy the music but he is not comfortable with me being there and I wish he just enjoy himself and then will I. Now when he is out he comes in late but I come along, we have to retire early if I start to talk to one of his biker buddies just conversing it is an argument all the way back. Now if he converse with his biker girls they are just friends who do what he does, drink a beer and talk the language. So reader if you can enlighten me from the outside looking in what is wrong with this relationship.  

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