On Sex and Lovemaking: A Cup of Common Ground?

Sherrolyn Mincey, thank you for reading and commenting. I couldn't agree with you more regarding your last sentence.

I am 65 and have been in love with three different men. I was married to one of these men for 25 years. One man was my lover for 12 years after I was in my 40's. My first love laster for 5 years in high school and shortly after. Each of these loves were different. My first love was lust that evolved into love and that love has lasted for 50 years. Even though we did not marry, we have been in touch over the years in a friendship way until 2 years ago when we once again started a new relationship of love. My husband and I truly loved and lusted for each other. We worked together towards goals, had a family, and finally evolved away from one another; however, we still have love and respect for each other. My other love was special. It was a time in my life and his when we both needed someone to love, respect, and care for eventhough we never married. Love needs change as you age and mature. It is more important to make love with someone you care for than to simply have sex.

Sara, you're so very welcome and I thank you, Sara. Your comments have blessed me as much as my article has touched you. I am always in awe-some wonder how we touch each other's lives in ways we never expected or thought possible. I will pray with you and your husband to have singleness of mind about important matters in your marriage. Agreement is nice to have. Be blessed.

Thank you for helping me put my thoughts into words. I have unsuccessfully tried to explain my point of view to my husband. We definitely differ in our thoughts. I'm not trying to "prove" my point but attempting to explain how I feel. Great article!