I just want to tell all those women out there not to give up.
I was taken advantage of sexually at a party 20 years ago, and I have had several repercussions from it. I don’t remember exactly what happened, except I know my virginity was stolen from me, and I woke up the next morning to a guy in bed with me. I remember there was a lot of blood, I thought I had gotten my period. I might have been drugged, I don’t know, I was really drunk (underage, only 16). I was stalked by the guy who had this party – he stole my bra and used to call me and say “I have your bra, come down the street and get it.” This guy was actually my friend’s older brother. It was a terrible night, and still have nightmares occasionally, wondering what exactly happened to me.
Since my first rape, I have had several unhealthy relationships with men, but finally, I am happily married to a wonderful man. I really believe I was smart to take my time to get married – I am 35 now, and I want to get pregnant.
I want to tell teen girls not to give in to peer pressure, to stay away from drugs and alcohol, (actually alcohol IS a drug) and to get involved in hobbies that are enjoyable. I started taking ballet as an adult, I love it, I feel I am talented at it, and it gives me an outlet for artistry and it is great exercise.
