Non-Monogamy: In Other Words an Open Marriage (Ours That Is)

By: Dwight Hardtigan (View Profile)

But over time she learned to ignore these types and still make some friends chatting online. Then one day she called me over to the computer and showed me what was being said in the chat she was having with a guy that she had been chatting with for some time, it all seemed very respectful and like it was a very clean down to earth conversation at first that is, as she scrolled down to the point she called me over and showed me that the guy she was chatting with was asking her if I (her husband) would mind if she was to have cyber sex with him. Well at that point she looked at me said, “WHAT IS THAT!” I smiled and explained to her as quickly as I could and as best I could in the short amount of time that I was given and seeing as the chat was still in progress at the time, she was hesitant and a little nervous because she thought I would get mad or upset. When I told her to go for it if she really wanted to and that I was okay with it, I can honestly say she was shocked but she smiled and sent a message to hold on to her chat buddy and got up to get her toy, which was a just a regular dildo.

You see what she did not know is, I knew deep down in my heart for some time that there was something else that she really wanted but would not say or admit it to me completely, at least she did not want to in fear of hurting me or my feelings. But I knew from the way she talked with her coworkers and some of her girlfriends that she talked with and over the course of time between chatting online. And she too had saved a nice size collection of pictures of men, nude that is, showing all of their wonders, which did show me and let know about. A few times I would come across something I thought she would enjoy looking and would show her and she would have me save it for her. Anyway to be honest I started to wonder, did I wake a sleeping giant? Well in a manor of speaking that is, I thought to my self what did I awaken in her, because I can say with all honesty when she got in to that one cyber sex session that night, she really got in to it as I sat and watched her from the living room. And I could tell she was really enjoying her self and I must admit that it did turn me on to see her have fun and enjoy the pleasure that she was getting.

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posted: 04.21.2008
Sadie
I liked your story, Dwight! And, like Jenny Block, I too am loving that the concept of Open Marriage is coming "out of the closet". Let's all keep writing stories about Open Marriage and bring it out even further, shall we? Take Care. Sexie Sadie ~ confessionsfrommyopenmarriage.blogspot.com/
posted: 02.28.2008
Jenny
I really enjoyed reading about your experience as my husband and I are in an open marriage as well. It can be tough. But it is also wonderful and has been worth all of the steps we had to take to get here. I appreciate you sharing your story. I think a lot more people are living this way than we know and writing like this really helps our visibility. All the best, Jenny Block Author of "Open: Love, Sex, and Life in an Open Marriage" Seal Press, June 2008 www(dot)jennyonthepage(dot)com open-marriage(dot)blogspot(dot)com/
posted: 11.30.2007
Dwight Hardtigan
Well now Ivy, I must admit that I sure was not expecting the type of responce you gave, but on the same hand I must also say, I am very pleased that you did. It was a pleasure to hear of your expierence and how much you and your husband enjoyed the pleasures of sharing each other with someone else, because in all honesty that is just what you two have done as well as my wife and I. And I must say...You go Girl. And I can honestly say that I know just what you mean, I mean I really do, because I to think that I have UnLeased an Animal In my wife, as well as having learned some of her deepest desires that she would not have other wise spoken of. Even til this day she has a bit of a hard time talking to me face to face about what, how and the way she enjoyed her self, well unless we do it through e-mail. But Yes I know all to well what you mean by Unleasing an Animal. I am happy for you and wish you and your husband the best, again it was great hearing of your expierence.
posted: 11.19.2007
Ivy Martin
I'm 29 & have been married for 8 yrs. My whole non-monogamy situation started a few years back when my husband asked if I was ever with a woman or if I had any interest in being with one. I told him that I kissed a girl in high school & that I had fantasies of sexual relatiuonships with women, I was always intrigued by another woman's feminitity & sensaulity. Then he asked if I would want to try & we both had sex with a female friend. At that point it was the most sexy, daring experience either one of us had ever had, it was his first time with 2 women. We continued to speak about fantasies, we would watch porn & ask each other would you do that, or would you like to see me do that.Our marriage is wonderful, even though we married young we have still been able to explore ourselves sexually with an understanting that we only party together.Since that first time we've had other encounters, even a full swap with another couple. I still want double penetration. He unleashed an animal in me
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