Well later that night, when we both went to bed a little earlier and we had what I would have to say was some REALLY good sex. Before going to sleep I asked her, even though I had a pretty good idea that she really enjoyed having cyber sex, I wanted to hear what she really had to say and yes I did wonder how often she was playing with her dildo, because it seemed like she never did, well not that I knew of that is. And as I thought she still felt nervous about it but she did say that she liked it and it was fun but weird at the same time, and she asked me how I knew of cyber sex and what to do and have done it before while she was at work. I explained to her that I was asked several times but never did it and the reason I knew what it was because I googled it (remember Google is your friend) when I was asked, but I never did because I did not want her to think I was doing anything behind her back and in all honesty I did not really know how to approach her with it without sounding like a pervert. Or even worse that she would think that she was not satisfying me in bed, that I needed to go and have cyber sex with some other woman, so I asked her what made her do it seeing as she did not know what it was really.
Basically her answer was, to see what it was like, but she did also say that it just is and was not like having the real thing and even though she did have some fun, it was not something that she would do all the time or any more. She said that playing with her toy was okay once in a while or when I was not around, but again it just is not the same thing as the real thing. Which I did understand was how she was feeling, because of her up-bringing and the way her father and mother raised her, it’s not that she was sheltered or anything like that but more on the lines of having protective parents as well as two brothers that were protective of her. Her parents were old school for the most part, marriage first then sex, and I could tell that she was not the type of girl to have been around the block and sleeping with all kinds of guys, her parents did keep a watchful eye on her but yet gave her space to do what she wanted as long as she did not get hurt.
