Non-Monogamy: In Other Words an Open Marriage (Ours That Is)

By: Dwight Hardtigan (View Profile)

I guess you could say that, the son could get away with lots more than the daughter, I think you know I mean, if the son went out and got laid and had fun it was ok as long as he did not the girl pregnant, but if the daughter went out and got laid and had fun, well oh no, that just is not right she can’t do that or she was tramp. 

She just was not exposed to all that kind of stuff and back when we met there were no computers in every home and the internet like it is today, so everything was all new to her as well as it was to me also, for the most part that is. Okay fast forward here a few months, one night we were both in bed and having sex and for some reason things just did not feel the same or at least I thought so, maybe it was just that she was tired or really not in the mood and just doing her wifely duties, I don’t really know. But I started asking what was on her mind, was not in to it, or was there some one else, meaning another guy? Again as I said earlier I knew deep down in my heart that there was something else that she wanted, so I asked her to be honest with me and not to worry about hurting me or my feelings. It took a while and with some coaxing for to open up to me and say what was on her mind, I even told her that I knew or at least had a very good idea but I was not completely sure and the reason why I felt that I had a good idea of what was because.

Well let me back up just a bit. I am not the kind of guy that can keep going like the energizer bunny, that keeps going and going, but on a good night I could last for say up to twenty minutes and she is the type of woman that needs a lot of stroking more often than not, she is not one to reach her climax without a fair amount of action if you know what I mean. I always had to give that her that extra effort to please her, be it with more foreplay and give her that extra bit of oral, which mind you I did not mind doing at all, in fact I love doing it, to me the more the better, besides I Aim To Please.

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posted: 04.21.2008
Sadie
I liked your story, Dwight! And, like Jenny Block, I too am loving that the concept of Open Marriage is coming "out of the closet". Let's all keep writing stories about Open Marriage and bring it out even further, shall we? Take Care. Sexie Sadie ~ confessionsfrommyopenmarriage.blogspot.com/
posted: 02.28.2008
Jenny
I really enjoyed reading about your experience as my husband and I are in an open marriage as well. It can be tough. But it is also wonderful and has been worth all of the steps we had to take to get here. I appreciate you sharing your story. I think a lot more people are living this way than we know and writing like this really helps our visibility. All the best, Jenny Block Author of "Open: Love, Sex, and Life in an Open Marriage" Seal Press, June 2008 www(dot)jennyonthepage(dot)com open-marriage(dot)blogspot(dot)com/
posted: 11.30.2007
Dwight Hardtigan
Well now Ivy, I must admit that I sure was not expecting the type of responce you gave, but on the same hand I must also say, I am very pleased that you did. It was a pleasure to hear of your expierence and how much you and your husband enjoyed the pleasures of sharing each other with someone else, because in all honesty that is just what you two have done as well as my wife and I. And I must say...You go Girl. And I can honestly say that I know just what you mean, I mean I really do, because I to think that I have UnLeased an Animal In my wife, as well as having learned some of her deepest desires that she would not have other wise spoken of. Even til this day she has a bit of a hard time talking to me face to face about what, how and the way she enjoyed her self, well unless we do it through e-mail. But Yes I know all to well what you mean by Unleasing an Animal. I am happy for you and wish you and your husband the best, again it was great hearing of your expierence.
posted: 11.19.2007
Ivy Martin
I'm 29 & have been married for 8 yrs. My whole non-monogamy situation started a few years back when my husband asked if I was ever with a woman or if I had any interest in being with one. I told him that I kissed a girl in high school & that I had fantasies of sexual relatiuonships with women, I was always intrigued by another woman's feminitity & sensaulity. Then he asked if I would want to try & we both had sex with a female friend. At that point it was the most sexy, daring experience either one of us had ever had, it was his first time with 2 women. We continued to speak about fantasies, we would watch porn & ask each other would you do that, or would you like to see me do that.Our marriage is wonderful, even though we married young we have still been able to explore ourselves sexually with an understanting that we only party together.Since that first time we've had other encounters, even a full swap with another couple. I still want double penetration. He unleashed an animal in me
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