Non-Monogamy: In Other Words an Open Marriage (Ours That Is)

To which my answer was, of course! But I would not do it because I did not want to be unfaithful to her, but yes, it has been a fantasy of mine. That is when she said to me that she would not do it at all if it was only her, or to put in another way, she wanted to make sure I was not left out in the cold. By this time, I was completely shocked because that I did not expect all, never in a million years, so after a few months and discussing it and making sure we understood each other and laying down some ground rules and what we would and would not do as well as always keep everything in the open, never sneak around and always being honest with each other. Together we found a swingers website after doing some research on how to go about it, we posted an ad and with in a few months we met a couple, we all talked for a few months got to know each other and got to be friends and once we were all comfortable with each other and laid down some ground rules. We did the deed so to speak, my wife with her husband and I with his wife, we were all in the same room as well in separate rooms also, we went to their home, they came to ours, I guess the best way to put it is that we as a married couple were dating another married couple. I can still honestly say that we all enjoyed the time we all spent together and yes that means even when we were just sitting around talking and just having good conversation.

Even though it only last a several months, we have never looked back with regret at all, why did it all end? Well, for one we were all getting a little to close and the other couples wife really wanted to try being with another woman for the first time and my wife did not really want to be with another woman. (Which I might add that we did try at one time and it just did not work.) I must say that, that kind of lifestyle is not easy and can get tricky and at times complicated if one is not careful and if and when feelings get involved, it just gets even more complicated if that is not what is expected and or desired.