Phil or Oprah. Despite what show it is women are truly crushed because they were taught false beliefs about themselves and men’s sexual needs. This is one of the fundamental reasons young, sexually active teens should be taught the truth about the opposite sex, sexuality, and emotional needs, so that as adults they don’t live a fool’s life. Basically, females should be taught that after sex, males want to move on to their next task. Males should be taught female will want to cuddle afterwards. Of course the debates said if he really cared about her he would cuddle. The opposing side said if she really cares she should let him leave, sleep, or watch TV.
Among the top ten reasons for a man not to want to get married, is his concern that he is obligated and is expected to be faithful to only one woman for the rest of his life. For a man this a very frightening thought and for a younger man this is unimaginable. The rest of your life is an eternity. Even though he makes it to the altar and marries his beautiful bride, quite often the young groom does his best to consider monogamy an option. His impetuous instincts tell him his sexual urges are his rite of passage into manhood. It doesn’t take long before he is looking. It shouldn’t even be asked of a young man under twenty-five years old to be faithful, in a committed relationship and certainly he should not marry. With older men time and a lack of opportunity are his watch dog.
A man’s apprehension about marriage has nothing to do with his bride who probably the most amazing women or his ability to commit. The ideal that there are so many women in the world and he is going to have sex with one of them for the rest of his life is a major concern that is rarely spoken and is scorn from conversation; unless it discussed exclusively in the presents of men. It would be comparable to asking a woman to walk into her favorite shoe store and pick out any shoe she likes regardless of shape, style, color, brand, and cost. The only catch is this will have to wear these shoes for the rest of her life and for every occasion: work, the gym, the beach, dancing, yoga, dating, etc. I am certain that the thought of one shoe for the rest of a women’s life is very unappealing. That idea is inconceivable to her as the ideal of one woman per lifetime is inconceivable to men.
