Do Men Really Cheat? (Part 2)

By: Anthony Miner (View Profile)

This is not to say a man can’t literally live without having sex with one woman for the rest of his life and I am certain a woman can live with only one pair of shoes for eternally if need be. Nor am I saying that you can’t have great sex with the partner after being together for many years. In fact, I believe the best sex is with the woman you love the most; nevertheless, his need to desire other women for the rest of his life remains. Men are only following their biological needs that they inherited from their father’s who get it from their fathers, etc. The driving sexual need of your man is no different from your father, brother, nephew, uncle, and your grand father.

We often hear women speak of men who cheat as “they” or “them” or “he” not accepting or acknowledging that the man she loves as one of “them, they or he” or even their father as one of “them, they or he.” There are women who had been “cheated” on that looks at her girl friends man who on appearance seem to only have eyes for her or as at least according to her girl-friend. Or she sees a distinguished gentleman as one of those guys who doesn’t “cheat.” She dreams of an imaginary place where men are born only to desire one woman per relationship and the thought of being with another woman repulses him. Hence, she said I’m not settling - I’ll wait for my Mr. Right.

Some women wish their man could as loyal as “them, they or he.” The truth of the matter, men worldwide shares the same instinctual impulses. It’s not her man or your man—it’s all men. Nor can men be categorized by age, ethnicity, income, race, or location as “them, they, or he.” Consider this—if men worldwide would go on strike for a month and stop supporting the adult entertainment business. Such as pornographic web sites, strip clubs, x rated DVD’s, magazines, paraphernalia, and prostitution.

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posted: 02.07.2008
Liza
While I'm slightly offended by the author's strong insinuation that only men feel this way.... or by comparing the feeling to only being allowed to buy one pair of shoes... he does have some good points that I'll keep in mind, and I thought I'd share them with you. - women (in my experience) feel this way too... just as much as guys do... it's just not as socially acceptable to show/admit it. - people don't like to feel stifled - the idea of only having sex with one person for the rest of your life is a kinda scary thought for anyone, especially if you like variety. - everyone looks.... - everyone gets turned on by different things.... it has nothing to do with how much they care or respect their partner. - everyone wants to feel like their partner only has eyes for them... and everyone needs to keep in mind that their eyes/minds drift from time to time. In other words, this is (in general) a human condition. We all just need to keep it in mind.
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