She said just because—because you should love your significant other through the thick and thin of it. If a person is raised by parents who aren’t the greatest role models, parents who didn’t give there daughter the necessary tools to feel confident and walk with high self esteem. Then why is it the men she loves responsibility to build her esteem self up and then be criticized for his honesty. When she ask do I look fat in these jeans? 1) There is only one answer—No. 2) Why is he put in the position to make her feel better by lying? Isn’t the way we feel about ourselves own responsibility? Isn’t that a form of emotional abuse to make them say something they really don’t feel? If he said yes you look pretty fat in those jeans, we all knows what happens? She’s not going to say thank you honey for being honest. It’s a loaded question to make her feel good about herself and he is the biggest ass-hole man of all time. I’m not saying that men shouldn’t be supportive and be there for their women. It’s just not fair of a woman to ask a men not to follow his biological need for sex, in other words to tell a man not to be a “cheater”; when on the other hand she is given carte blanche to pander to her most important need of being emotional. When she does it is without any apology, regret, or compromise. Why is it ok for women to fulfill her emotional need and not men? Like a man it is her genetic code that dictates her needs.
Some would argue that being emotional is different from having sex with another person while you are in a relationship. I would argue that yes they are two different acts, but the point isn’t about the act – it’s about males and females meeting their biological needs. Neither sex can say that their need is better or more legitimate than the other. Neither can ask the other to surrender their needs that make men, men and women, women, for the sake of feeling better about them.
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