I've long since passed the point of craving sex, having perfected my own craft, and am actually starting to dread actually having sex, perhaps because I've been feeling like that will be the occasion for me to have this conversation with her and I can think of very few things north of Guantanamo that will be less pleasant. Although my need for sex has stabilized, I recognize that this is not a good place for us to be and that it is certainly negatively impacting our relationship as a whole.
Clearly this is a one-sided story and I've whitewashed a few of my bad habits, but I'm really not a monster trying to place all the blame elsewhere. I may not be that great in bed, but I've received neither complaints nor requests (even when I request them), so if there are things I need to do differently I really don't know what they are. I'm just a guy who loves his wife and can't figure out why one very important aspect of our relationship is so dissatisfying.
I'm a guy who needs help.
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