Can’t Find The G-Spot? You’re Not Alone: The Science of Sex

By: Brie Cadman (View Profile)


Recent research, however, indicates variation rather than absence. A study done in 2008 by Emmanuele Jannini and colleagues at the University of L’Aquila in Italy used ultrasound to measure anatomical differences between women who report vaginal orgasms (orgasm due to stimulation of the vaginal walls and not the clitoris) and those who don’t. The researchers scanned the genital area of nine women who reported vaginal orgasms and eleven who didn’t and found that those with orgasms have thicker tissue in the “urethrovaginal space.” The authors conclude that the size of this space is correlated with the ability to have a vaginally-activated orgasm; without evidence of what they call the G-spot, women won’t have this type of orgasm.

However, critics on both sides of the debate question the results of this small study. G-spot detractors contend that this place could just be an extension of the clitoris, which was found in 1998 by Helen O’Connell to be much larger than previously thought—the part we can see externally is really just the tip of the iceberg. Because the clitoris extends all the way into the vagina, perhaps vaginal orgasms occur because they are actually stimulating the part of the clitoris, or the glands, nerves, and tissue surrounding this area.

On the other side of the debate are the G-spot believers who question why the study showed only some women to have G-spots and not all.

Prostate and Ejaculation, for Women?
Part of the confusion regarding the G-spot may also have to do with the unclear characterization of female “ejaculation” and the Skene’s glands. The Skene’s glands are paraurethral glands thought to be homologous to the male prostate, and are sometimes referred to as the female prostate.

Some researchers claim that the Skene’s glands and the G-spot work in conjunction—or perhaps are one in the same. According to the Kinsey Institute, during sexual arousal, the vagina and the Skene’s glands swell so that you can feel them in the interior of the vagina—around the same area that the G spot is supposed to be. For some women, pressure here is pleasurable; for others it is not.

Stimulation of this area in some women can cause the Skene’s glands to produce fluid, like its homologous male counterpart. In men, the prostate produces secretions, which mix with sperm to produce semen. In some women, the Skene’s glands may produce the fluid that is the source of female ejaculate. Although it comes out the urethra, the ejaculate is not urine. Biochemical analysis shows the presence of prostatic acid phosphatase and prostate specific antigen, further indicating the role of a prostate-like structure in women. 

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posted: 10.16.2008
PeggyMargaret
I have found that different women have such different sensitivities regarding their various erogenous zones, and at different levels of arousal, also! Maybe some women learn that everything has to be fast & hard in order to achieve orgasm, but for me, having it that way on my G-spot is usually too intense, especially right off the bat. So, if you don't get how some women say it feels so 'mind blowing', when it's just an irritant to you, try a different approach. For me, the time where I truly learned to recognize the sensations of my G-spot was through constant pressure on it, not so much 'back-and-forth' stimulation. My partner kept pressure on it with his finger while stimulating my clitoris. He could tell what type of clitoral stimulation was good for me (or if he was in the right place) by how the g-spot reacted against his finger, i.e., whether the area swelled or not. Learning to react to your G-spot is definitely a matter of conditioning, start simply & evolve into it.
posted: 10.09.2008
CJ
The reason most women don't experience ejaculation is that they are afraid to relax and let go and they are also apprehensive to talk to there partner and express what it is that makes them feel good. I feel a large number of men are "TOO MACHO" to allow the woman to feel pleasure. as long as they finish they do not care. It was not until I was about 46 when I experienced female ejaculation because I listened to my girl and found what makes her feel good and I did it. EXACTLY how she described. FYI The tip of the clit, and I mean the VERY TIP, is extremely sensitive and will drive her crazy if you know how to manipulate it. Women do not be afraid to let him know what you want and what makes you feel good and mean, don't be so STUPID as to not listen to her. If she feels good, you will "feel" even better
posted: 10.08.2008
Deas Plant
Hello, Kittykitty. I can tell you from personal experience that it CAN be very difficult to feel if a woman is having an orgasm when the part of you which is in most intimate contact with the center of where she is having her orgasm is being rapidly and forcefully plunged into and withdrawn from said center. Now I know that women often experience orgasm as a 'whole body' event and more power to them for that. I also know from discussion with them that many women find that the slight hardening and expansion of the male penis just prior to ejaculation can be a trigger for their own orgasm. How-wevver, not ALL women experience the bucking bronco- ride 'em cowboy type of orgasms that are often depicted in porno movies (Yes, I've seen a few.) Quite a few women have very strong orgasms, felt right throughout thier bodies but the only real contractions are in their vaginas. (Some even have their orgasms in complete silence.) Now re-read the first sentence.
posted: 10.07.2008
Jesica Engle
i don't know what the scientific definitions of this hypothetical G spot is though. Does it require a prostate?
posted: 10.07.2008
Jesica Engle
hmm. . .well. . .I really believe that whatever you call it, a spot like that exists, and when you get over the slight pain, discomfort, and urge to pee, it feels mind blowing good, yelling good
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