Orgasm Problems? Pssst ... Not Me!

By: Mrs. Dee (View Profile)

When I was in my early thirties, I used to hang around with women that were older than me, mostly in their 40’s. One thing that I noticed that each of them had in common is that they were always talking about how horny they always were! I used to think that they were trying to project a hint, an indirect approach to lesbianism. I’ve always admired women who are sexy, the way they carry themselves, hair, make up, what they wear, but I’m a girl, I looooove men! And man, did I learn something I didn’t know about orgasms!

I’ve always enjoyed sex, had my first orgasm at 22 and that’s because the man I was with said he would not stop until I reached it. I told him, “I’m hard to please.” He said, “I’ll be patient.” Twenty minutes later I was in heaven! An hour later it was sayonara. I wasn’t really attracted to him, but if I knew then what I know now, who knows, I would have married him. I love sex but sometimes had a hard time achieving an orgasm and when I did it was the big O! But I’ve always known and heard about multiple ones and I lived looking forward to that heavenly day.

My friend who was from Holland used to always talk about sex. Positions, toys, masturbation, penis sizes, big ones, small ones, fat ones, skinny ones. Her stories were very explicit and graphic, she cracked me up! I used to think that she was crazy ‘making up’ stories of her ‘multiples.’ I thought to myself, “Can it be that easy?” I want what she’s having! What am I missing? I want more!

I lost touch with that friend but I met another one and history was repeating herself. This friend was Caribbean and she was very sexy! One day, she was talking to herself on her way to the kitchen and said, “I want d---!! I started to laugh and she turned around and laughed too. Then we started talking about men, sex, positions and so on and so on.

After listening to her for awhile, I finally told her what I have been observing about women in their 40’s and she said, “Girl, the older you get the better the sex!!!” “How old are you now?”, she asked me with a big smile on her face anticipating a number under, well, 40. I told her I was in my early 30’s and she said, “It’ll happen soon and you’re going to love it! She laughed so hard and was happy to have this woman to woman talk.

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posted: 03.05.2008
T.A. Banks
Hey great topic! I am 39 years old and I can tell you this sex thing gets better with age for women. My inner clock (sex energy) is that of an eighteen year old female right now, so age does have something to do with it. Sarah on the comment line, learn your body what make you have an orgasm. Play around with yourself until it happens. When that takes place, you will be able to guide your mate to help you to achieve it again and again. Use music, oils, and movies whatever arouse you.
posted: 02.26.2008
Sybil Gerughty
Ladies, sex is wonderful especially if you follow the female sex standard. I am 72 soon to be 73 and have sex every night during which time I enjoy from 10 to 20 orgasms depending on my mood. Intercourse just doesn't cut it for me and it never has although with 7 children you'd think I would have learned sooner. If you are interested in learning more, click on over to me web site at www.esybron.org. It's not complete yet as I am still working on it, but I'd love to have you visit, comment, and even participate.
posted: 02.24.2008
Desirai Labrada
I'm not sure it's necessarily the age as much as the wisdom that comes with age. Sex is definitely better now for me (I'm almost 30) than it used to be but I think that's because my partner and I are so committed to pleasing each other. The biggest factor being that we can openly and honestly discuss sex, our likes, and dislikes. My sexual pleasure was definitely not something I felt comfortable talking about in my early 20s. My boyfriend and I often remind each other how great sex will be even after we get married and I'm looking forward to everyday of it.
posted: 01.21.2008
Dave Jones
im an olderguy, in a chat room, typing with my magic words a female was typing back , having a huge wave of orgasums, they went on for 1 hour ,non stop she was totaly satisfyed using here fingers as well, its a mind trip, some women have not yet had,,, a sugestion it may work for you.. ya never know?
posted: 01.07.2008
Sarah Tucker
Ok ladies, don't freak out but I am 43 and I have only had an orgasm with a vibrator. I don't know why I try so hard, I want it so bad but without a little help from mr. plastic I can't achieve it. I do with oral but it takes forever. Any advice would be greatly appreciated.
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