If your fingers are moist from your secretions, you can start to gently run them over this area, and the head of the Clit, your “Love Button” will start to show itself. It was hidden by a small piece of flesh, called the hood, until your excitement reached this point. If you need more moisture, you can use your own saliva (just lick or spit on your fingertips), you can use the bottled variety of lube, or you can slip the tips of the fingers you are planning on using to pleasure yourself into the opening of your sex, and get some there. But whatever the source, be certain that you have something there. Poking at your Clit without lubrication will just hurt, at best, or injure you at worst!
But once you have little lubrication going, start to rub your fingers up and down the area, or move in small circular movements, whichever feels best. Keep the pace slow and regular at first, try imagining the pace of the Jeopardy clock counting the time for Final Jeopardy if you need something to help you keep pace. Then, as your excitement starts to build, move faster, or slower, or whatever feels best. Push as hard or as softly as you wish, whatever makes you feel best
Your other hand doesn’t have do be just sitting there! You can use it to squeeze your nipple, or you could slide your middle finger inside of your pussy, or two if you want, if that would feel good right then. You can move this finger in and out, finger fucking yourself, or just move it in whatever way makes you feel good. Remember, the guiding principle should be, “if it feels good, DO IT!”
As you feel yourself building towards the peak of pleasure that is an orgasm, remember, you don’t have to slow down, you can just go, and go and go until you cannot hold back any more. Let yourself go, let yourself fall over that abyss of pleasure … and then, when you have started to calm down, when your heart begins to slow to its normal lub-DUB, lub-DUB that you know … don’t be in a big hurry to leave. Savor the moment. Breathe in deeply, Breathe out. And perhaps next time, you will have a lover, a patient lover who truly cares about your pleasure, who can bring you over that peak. Then wash up, shower if you wish, and go on with your life …
