If your reading this article then I’m guessing you have been dumped by your boyfriend or girlfriend, or your thinking about splitting up with someone. Well this article is to tell you not to worry about it, if they felt the need to split up with you then it is there loss in the end, at least that is the way I see it.
I was in a relationship with the most wonderful women I have ever met; she made it all seem right. Even though we were only together for three months I felt like I had known her for ever. She made me be the person I have always aspired to be in life and made me feel that I could do almost anything. We saw each other on a regular basis and each time I ended up falling deeper and deeper for her.
Unfortunately, things do not go the way I though they would. I opened up to her and for some strange reason she could not take it. Had I gone too far by telling her about me or was she just not willing to hear about this side of me? Who knows.
She told me that she just wanted to be friends and that she did not know what she wanted anymore. Could this be true or was she just scared of getting too close? After saying that she went away for a couple of weeks, I hoped that during this time away she would realize what she wanted and I would finally get an answer. For two weeks I waited to find out if I was single again or if I had another chance to be with her.
She came back and all was well again, she said that she wanted me and I knew that I wanted her. She seemed distant for the next week, not really wanting to get close to me or allowing me to get close to her. I knew something was not right. That week I got the dreaded text message, “We need to talk”—I knew what was happening, I had sensed it for quite a while now. After all she had put me through, making me wait what felt like an eternity to find out if she still wanted me, only then to tell me that she felt more like a friend with me. To be honest, when she said that I felt crushed.
It has been a couple of weeks since that day and now I feel better than ever. I have my life together and know what I am doing with my life now.
The real reason for writing this story is not to let you get over you lost partner with great ease, but to make you feel like you have some worth again. As I said at the beginning, if they lost you then it is their loss in the end. If they didn’t want you then they didn’t deserve you at all. If you can’t be the most special person in the world to them, be it to yourself.
