I know I can survive this but need encouragement and motivation and I’m hoping this site will give me some of that. Every time I feel I’m okay or happy to be alive and try to go out I start to lose interest and end up at home and afraid. I don’t want to wait for five years to get over him due to my age, I’m forty-four and soon to be forty-five but I don’t want to be too quick either just out of fear of being alone and end up with another loser, what can I do?
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Hi Lorraine, thank you for your kind comment on my article, I know it sounds too common and it seems like an easy fix which it is. You are right, I may find another if I let myself but that's just it, after this one I've felt so discouraged that I'll probably miss my chance and regret it. I guess it'll just take time to heal more than anything. I think I'm making progess. Thank you again, I'll be reading this over and over again, thanks.
How lucky you are! You could have been married to this man who really did not love you. The marraige would have been terrible and you would have been miserable.The pain of a broken heart hurts long and deep. We believe finding new love will heal the 'crack' sooner. I believe all loves after that first.. are just 'patches' unfortunatly each one hurts just as much.The only way to avoid the pain avoid the love. Who ever said 'its better to have love and lost than never have loved at all " I'm sure said that after a very long time parted. You are going to have another. You'll meet when you least expect it. So start preparing today! and don't spend too much idol time alone.
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