So anyways, we moved into our new home in February. The arguments never stopped. We would disagree on everything under the sun. It was weighing down on me and making me so depressed. It was affecting me, him, our relationship, and of course the children. He wants me to be a different type of person. I just want him to love me for me and accept me. (Am I being selfish?) I want him to compromise with me. It started affecting how I started taking care of my children. I started to slack up, and just not care anymore about anything. One day, I came home, and found the computer still on. I went to it and saw that his email was still up. I looked into his inbox and discovered that he had been talking to this girl, telling her that he wants to be there for her and that he is into her. I called her the next day, and she told me that they knew each other from a long time ago, and that he looked her up on MySpace and found her. He was pursuing her.
I also found out that he had another email address and found out that he had his picture on the personals page and that he had signed up to meet people. He had been emailing over eighty different girls. I was so heart broken because, I just found out that I am pregnant again. When I called the first girl, I asked her if she has ever been to our home, and she said that he told her that he lived in another city than were we lived at and he showed her a house in some other city. Upon doing further investigation, I found a utility bill in his name with a different address. I confronted him about it, and he finally told me the truth. He bought another house one month before he bought the house that we are in now. When he took me to this house, I wanted to faint. The house was twice as big as ours and is worth over $800,000. I asked him why he would get this house knowing that we can barely afford the mortgage to the house where we are now. He told me that he bought it for investment purposes. It does not take a scientist to know that you do not buy a house for that price to use as an investment purpose unless you’re rich or something, and as far as I know, he’s not.
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