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Revisiting Birthing in America

By: Raakhi Mohan (View Profile)

I recently had the life-changing experience of delivering my sister’s firstborn at our home. During my medical training at Cornell, I had delivered a handful of times—in the middle of urban ghettos and in hospitals catering to the more privileged in the ‘big city’. Surprisingly, my experience of working on the Labor and Delivery Unit did not change much across that spectrum of hospital settings. Simply stated, hospital delivery is a sterile and automated process.

With this in mind, my sister and her partner decided to have a home birth. Like the majority of young adults in California, they were medically uninsured. Her MediCal coverage would not pay for midwife or birthing center services. To complicate the matter, some midwives will only deliver in birthing centers, and birthing centers are few and far between. Sign-ups for birthing center space are done months in advance. If you are uninsured and unable to afford these services out of pocket (a few thousand dollars), you have only two choices: deliver at home or deliver in a hospital. Many women will choose to go through the hospital system because they are afraid to deliver at home without any medical professionals—and they have good reason to be. Labor is a completely unpredictable phenomenon. Thankfully, in our circle of friends, we had a doctor, midwife, and a doula—so we planned for a home delivery. The parents-to-be wanted the experience to be as organic and natural as the babys conception was.

My sister had a perfect delivery: the birth was twenty-some hours of positive sound energy, warm showers, rose water facecloths, fresh fruit, and Sanskrit chanting. With our loving care, she did not bleed, tear or require any pain medications. Unfortunately, we were unable to deliver the placenta as she had uterine atony (the uterine stops contracting), which is common among first time mothers with long labor. This is usually rectified by giving the mother hormones to induce uterine contraction. Since we did not have any drugs at home, and since there was a chance the placenta needed to be surgically removed, we took her to the hospital.

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posted: 01.18.2008
Sandi E
I agree with this article. I can't wait for a birthing revolution. I dilivered my first in a Hospital. I did not know my rights, and I fell into the hospital routeen. It was a horrible experience! So bad that with my second child fear kept me from going to the hospital, and I dilivered at home unnasisted. My third I had a wonderful Midwife attended home birth. I am now pregnant with my fourth and look forward to birthing at home! I think that our society places so much fear into women about the birth experience. They go to the hospital with a false sence of saftey, and end up missing out on one of the most incredible experiences of their lives.
posted: 01.15.2008
Betty Lou
I really enjoyed your story. I am now expecting my third child. My first I pretty much knew nothing. I had an ob, was induced, had an epidural that did more harm than help, and ended with an emergency cesarean. It was the scariest thing that ever happened to me. I had no idea that everything my doctor suggested raised my risk for cesarean. Not to mention my fear was only holding the babe in. My second child was also a hospital delivery but with a midwife. This was a completely different experience. I was so fortunate to have a very quick delivery so the hospitals standards did not have time to effect us. The quick labor and the short stay was just long enough for me to get a staph infection. I had to have surgery when my daughter was a month old. Thank God she was unaffected and I am fine. Now, with my third child, I want to deliver at home. I will be using the same midwives, they were wonderful! I only wish I knew all this the first time!
posted: 12.23.2007
Lorelyn
Raakhi, you are 100% right in your analysis and conclusions regarding hospital vs. home birth in America, and the auras and energies surrounding each one. I have delivered all three of my babies at home, but because of postpartum hemmorhage with the last delivery, I was rushed to a hospital to receive a blood transfusion and postpartum care. Although my experience was all in all better than many women's that I have heard, I was still disgusted by the lack of attention to my personal opinions and requests, and the ER doctor on duty actually had the gall to say, while standing at the foot of my bed immediately after I had been admitted, "I don't have time for this." (Meaning me.) The general atmosphere in the hospital was cold, rude, uncaring, and machinated, as opposed to the positive, calm, intimate atmosphere at home. Every mother I know has horror stories of the treatment she received while giving birth to a new life in a hospital. There is, without question, a need for change.
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