Revisiting Birthing in America

By: Raakhi Mohan (View Profile)

Hospitals may not be able to incorporate midwives or revamp the operations of the Labor and Delivery Unit overnight. However, they can educate labor staff and work on the widespread disregard for home birth, disregard for intimacy of experience, and forced isolation in the hospital setting.

The view that mothers-to-be are consumers must also be changed. At four in the morning, we overheard a nurse talking to the patient next door, Okay honey, wake up. You delivered a healthy baby. Your cab is waiting downstairs.” That a woman needs to be woken up and sent home at four in the morning without her baby is not in any way healthy for the mother or baby. Such treatment is the product of our view of health care as a business. The hospitals enforce early discharge so they can make more money by putting a new patient in the bed. In my health policy work, it is not uncommon for hospitals to describe obstetrics as a “service line” and patients as “clients”. This touches on the larger issue of whether health care is a human right; Im simply suggesting that L&D would be a great place to start reversing that consumer mentality. How can we be okay with reducing initiation into motherhood—one of the most important roles in our society—as a product line?

Similarly, because of the business mentality in hospitals, there is a lack of concern surrounding patient rights. Women are not informed that they have a right to refuse any aspect of the care they are uncomfortable with. Hospital staff is not given any incentives to customize care for patients, or to educate patients. We would hope that in the future hospital practices are driven by patient comfort rather than cost efficiency.

All in all, we feel very blessed with the entire birth, including the hospital experience. We were with her and kept the experience intimate; we delivered the placenta ourselves and she didnt require surgery. My sister received exactly what we needed, but only because we knew what to insist upon, and what to refuse. This made me feel for the many women that go through delivery without that knowledge and support.

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posted: 01.18.2008
Sandi E
I agree with this article. I can't wait for a birthing revolution. I dilivered my first in a Hospital. I did not know my rights, and I fell into the hospital routeen. It was a horrible experience! So bad that with my second child fear kept me from going to the hospital, and I dilivered at home unnasisted. My third I had a wonderful Midwife attended home birth. I am now pregnant with my fourth and look forward to birthing at home! I think that our society places so much fear into women about the birth experience. They go to the hospital with a false sence of saftey, and end up missing out on one of the most incredible experiences of their lives.
posted: 01.15.2008
Betty Lou
I really enjoyed your story. I am now expecting my third child. My first I pretty much knew nothing. I had an ob, was induced, had an epidural that did more harm than help, and ended with an emergency cesarean. It was the scariest thing that ever happened to me. I had no idea that everything my doctor suggested raised my risk for cesarean. Not to mention my fear was only holding the babe in. My second child was also a hospital delivery but with a midwife. This was a completely different experience. I was so fortunate to have a very quick delivery so the hospitals standards did not have time to effect us. The quick labor and the short stay was just long enough for me to get a staph infection. I had to have surgery when my daughter was a month old. Thank God she was unaffected and I am fine. Now, with my third child, I want to deliver at home. I will be using the same midwives, they were wonderful! I only wish I knew all this the first time!
posted: 12.23.2007
Lorelyn
Raakhi, you are 100% right in your analysis and conclusions regarding hospital vs. home birth in America, and the auras and energies surrounding each one. I have delivered all three of my babies at home, but because of postpartum hemmorhage with the last delivery, I was rushed to a hospital to receive a blood transfusion and postpartum care. Although my experience was all in all better than many women's that I have heard, I was still disgusted by the lack of attention to my personal opinions and requests, and the ER doctor on duty actually had the gall to say, while standing at the foot of my bed immediately after I had been admitted, "I don't have time for this." (Meaning me.) The general atmosphere in the hospital was cold, rude, uncaring, and machinated, as opposed to the positive, calm, intimate atmosphere at home. Every mother I know has horror stories of the treatment she received while giving birth to a new life in a hospital. There is, without question, a need for change.
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