Stop the Lip Service: Give Moms What They Need

By: Laura Roe Stevens (View Profile)

No wonder so many women quit their jobs and stay home for a year or two—with the rising costs of childcare, and so little support from companies and our government, many feel that they have to. And that’s only if they can swing it. My sister, a single working mom, surely couldn’t. Again, it’s shameful and I for one plan to only vote for a political candidate who is brave enough to tackle big business interests and propose a paid family leave policy.

I read recently that the Clinton administration proposed a paid family leave program that would allow states to use unemployment funds for maternity leaves. Sadly, that was shot down by the Bush administration after opposition from business groups concerned with increased contribution to state unemployment funds.

Perhaps the next administration—whether Democratic or Republican—should take a close look at California’s program. While I don’t think it provides long enough coverage, the plan does offer 50 percent pay for six weeks, paid from a fund that employees, not employers, pay into. This certainly would appease big business leaders. The next step will be for the national government to offer some sort of assistance for additional leave that families need to take. I know I certainly would not be able to hand over a six-week-old infant to a day care facility—especially if that child was born prematurely. Can you imagine?

From what I’ve read, five states—California, Hawaii, New Jersey, New York, and Rhode Island, and Puerto Rico—require employers to have temporary disability programs, which pay benefits if the pregnancy is defined as a disability by a doctor. A few others have infant care programs that pay subsidies to low-income families for up to two years. But this clearly isn’t enough—especially if you do not live in these states.

Our government needs to make a national statement of support to families. Not only is it the right thing to do, I imagine in the long run, the ripple effect might even help the economy and definitely help working families from diving into poverty. What do you think? Would a paid maternity leave make a big difference in your life? I think I’d appreciate it far more than flowers or chocolates on Mother’s Day—what about you?

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posted: 05.25.2008
Claire Batley
HI there I had to comment on this as a British Mum, I find it hardto believe that such a huge country as America does not have a maternity leave policy that cares more for the welfare and nurturing of a mother and baby at all! Even if you are self employed in the UK, the government has realised by supporting mother and child relationships, it is making a better future for its self.
posted: 05.21.2008
Rachel Rose
Excellent article. I live in Canada, where paid maternity leave is the norm. My office also has an on-site daycare for the growing number of employees with children. It makes perfect economic sense for a company to invest in their employees and to give them the freedom and opportunity to continue their careers and not be penalized for having a family.
posted: 05.14.2008
Thallia
Let me get this straight - you basically want your company to pay you for work you're not doing just because you chose to have sex and it resulted in a pregnancy? And you want them to do this possibly multiple times? Are you kidding me? That is just as ridiculous a notion as me, a female who has no plans to have children, electing to take several months of paid vacation every other year just because I feel like it and my boss not being able to say no. It doesn't matter what other countries do. It's not about family values. It's selfishness. You want someone else to pay for a choice YOU made. If losing a paycheck for a few months is that disruptive to your lifestyle, you need to adjust your lifestyle. If you can't afford to take time off to care for a child, you really shouldn't be having a child.
posted: 05.08.2008
Katrina Johnson
Working for a major corporation I thought taking maternity leave this October would be pretty simple. I even have the Aflac short term disability insurance so that I don't have to deal with NO pay while I am on leave. Yet they are making it increasingly difficult and telling me they can only garuntee I will come back to my same job for a 4 week maternity leave period.
posted: 05.06.2008
Christie Crowder
BRAVO! I hope someone campaigning for the candidates stumbles upon this article! I too am tired of this being swept under the rug!! One of my main reasons for starting my own business before I had children was because I didnt want to go through what I saw other women go through in corporate america. I wanted control over how much time I took off for pregnancy, birth, cold and flu season, etc! I have been self-employed for 10 years and two beautiful babies! Thank you for this article!!
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