The Rules for Normal Eating

By: Karly Pitman (View Profile)

Do you want to eat like a “normal” person: to sit down to a satisfying, filling meal that offers pleasure and nourishment? Do you long to exit the diet/binge roller coaster? Do you want to have a healthy relationship with food?

Navigating the literature on nutrition can make the most easygoing woman neurotic. Everyone has their pet theory on how to eat: low carb, low fat, vegan, macrobiotic, raw, whole foods, no laws (eat whatever you want.) It’s bad enough that there are 20 different approaches to diet and nutrition; worse when the experts start contradicting one another.

At some point, you have to lighten up. As a wellness consultant told me, “It’s only food.” We’re not talking about nuclear war here. Yet the foods we eat have a direct bearing on how we feel: our energy, mood, appearance, and body image are all influence by our dietary choices.

I’ve tried many different ways of eating: vegan, vegetarian, low carb, high protein, low sugar, whole foods, and the junk food/eat whatever I want diet. I’ve been bulimic, an undereater, an overeater, and a chronic dieter. From my experiences, I’ve come up with an eating plan that works for me. It’s simple, easy to follow, yet life changing in its application. Here are my five rules for normal eating:

  1. I eat when I’m hungry; I stop when I’m full. Being hungry or irritable from low blood sugar feels terrible. Too much food makes me feel bloated, stuffed, and sick. So I eat enough food to give me energy, health, and enjoyment. And the next time I feel hungry I eat again.
  2. I eat three meals a day, everyday, including breakfast. When I was overeating, a huge part of my bingeing stemmed from undereating: I would eat as little as possible during the day (because I was on a perpetual quest to lose ten pounds) only to be starving by dinnertime. Then I would overeat, not because I had poor willpower, but because I was hungry. Eating food at regular intervals makes me feel grounded, stable, and satisfied.
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posted: 10.26.2007
Nancy Jerominski
Bingeing is caused by eating foods that turn off the appestat. Unless all the nutrients needed to experience satiety are present in the foods you eat, you'll be driven to eat mercilessly because the body hopes you might actually eat something it can use. Fake foods contain fake ingredients which no body's body recognizes to utilize. Piles of calorie dense food containing no nutrition is consumed, you don't feel full and everyone gets fatter. Most in the fitness profession tell us to eat the wrong things, not enough of it and to exercise too much. Read "Nutrition & Physical Degneration" by Weston A. Price or talk to any CHEK Practitioner on how to be healthy and happy while eating good food and moving right! At 51, I eat between 3000 and 4000 calories a day without hours of exercise daily. I can because I eat foods based on the traditonal nutrition that got us here over thousands of years. Check out "The Politics of Bingeing" and sleuth some of those references.
posted: 08.20.2007
Rebecca Brown
This is great advice in the midst of all the fad diets out there. We're all ignoring our gut and not following common sense. Thank you for reminding us that we can eat what we want -within reason - and still be healthy and maintain our weight.
posted: 08.15.2007
Karly Pitman
Taylor, Making peace with food has been an ongoing journey for me, too. I am a former food neurotic who is taking it one step at a time. But, oh, the freedom: to eat a piece of pizza and enjoy it, not thinking about calories or carbs or fat. And the freedom to love my body, and not think I have to tame and starve and restrict it into some ultrathin ideal! Healing my food/body image issues has been some of the most important work that I have done; I think this is also true for most women. (It sadly, seems, to affect us all.) I've made this issue my life mission; you can discover more about it at www.firstourselves.com. If I can do it, really, ANYONE can. :) In encouragement, Karly Randolph Pitman karlyp@firstourselves.com www.firstourselves.com
posted: 08.15.2007
Taylor P.
Thank you for your advice. It is very easy to just think about food and freak out about how much and what kind we'll be eating at all hours of the day. To set yourself from that sort of mentality would be wonderful. One step at a time. Thanks again.
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