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Is There a Post-Abortion Syndrome?

By: Brie Cadman (View Profile)

When I first came across the idea of a Post-Abortion Syndrome (PAS)—the cover story on the New York Times Sunday magazine a few weeks back—I was incensed. “What in the hell is the New York Times doing validating the anti-abortionists pseudo science?”

Then I took the time to actually read the article. I was in staunch agreement with the author, who paints pro-life and religious zealots as certifiable nut jobs. But there was something disconcerting about PAS that I could not quite shake, a few kernels of truth behind the fanatical preaching. These kernels were not enough to convince me that PAS exists, but they were enough to convince me that both sides of the debate—right to choose versus right to life—have a lot to learn by unraveling this so-called syndrome.

PAS: Fact or Fiction?

Imagine that you are one of the approximately 1.3 million women who get an abortion every year. While you regret having an unplanned pregnancy, you are relieved after the procedure is over. You were not financially, emotionally, or logistically ready to have a child. Now imagine someone comes along—an abortion recovery counselor—and tries to tell you that instead of relief, you should be feeling remorse. The abortion, you see, was not the end to your problems, but the beginning.

According to pro-life and anti-abortion groups, many women will develop Post-Abortion Syndrome. Symptoms include guilt, shame, sadness, remorse, lowered self-esteem, depression, and hostility. PAS supporters point to abortion as reasons for drug and alcohol abuse, suicides, and eating disorders. Anecdotal testimonials from women help to highlight their claims:

“My abortion has left me empty, alone, and in despair. It has taken me to a place I almost could not come back from. The self-hatred I see every time I look in the mirror has been my constant companion for the last ten years,” says Lori, a woman quoted on the right-to-life Web site, Rachel’s Vineyard Ministries.

Although anti-abortionists describe PAS as a real medical condition, they do not prescribe a medical cure. Rather, they offer week-long counseling retreats, which usually lead women on a path towards God and away from reproductive rights.

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posted: 10.17.2007
Katherine Harms
I can hardly believe that a woman would feel no pain or remorse at the destruction of a life. I am not suggesting that she should wallow in the feeling, just that if she feels nothing after choosing to end a human life, it would be strange. To abort a baby is to kill that baby, and whether we espouse the political agenda pro abortion or against it, we should not lie to ourselves about the subject. I have never until today heard of "Post-Abortion Syndrome," a term which suggests that every woman's experience falls into some neat grouping of symptoms. I rather doubt there is such a thing. I do believe that every woman who chooses to end the life of the baby gestating within her must certainly consider, before and after the procedure, some concern bigger than her own convenience. I'm glad my mother didn't think I was inconvenient or too expensive.
posted: 10.17.2007
Triumphant 1
I had 4 abortions and know the emotional, psychological and spiritual pain a woman may feel. I also know what it feels like to live in denial about my decisions and not face the decisions I made, because I felt justified to abort my children. I believed they were my choice. However, a choice I was too ashamed to face. I believe my choices now were wrong, but well supported by the pro-choice beliefs I had at the time. I was sold out on pro-choice, but didn't consider the fact that these were precious babies in my womb, like the daughter I carried full term. It's unfortunate I didn't have anyone to help me understand then how the pain from my decisions, would come to haunt me 10 years later and uncover the root of my emotional instability and unworthy feelings of having such an amazing daughter. It wasn't until I allowed myself to feel the pain, repent, forgive myself, acknowledge my children and grieve their loss as any mother who looses a child that I began to heal. I thank God
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