Believe me. It’s okay. You will still be loved when you say “NO” because you simply can’t (or won’t) do it all.
4. Prioritize.
Know what’s important. And more importantly ... what’s NOT.
If it doesn’t fit with your passion, values and goals, don’t do it.
No matter what.
Someone else will do it (if it really needs to be done) and everything will be just fine. I promise.
5. Accept. Reject. But NEVER TOLERATE.
Accept a person or a situation for who or what it is. Or walk away from it.
NEVER tolerate a person or situation. NEVER. Toleration will hurt you. It will destroy the relationship anyway. And it can make you sick.
Tolerations are the things that you “put up” with. Incomplete decisions. Negative people. Broken agreements. Petty annoyances. Irritants.
Basically, everything that gets on your nerves is toleration.
Get rid of your tolerations. Or make a plan to accept them.
6. Go Where You’re Wanted
People who need people are lucky people.
People who want people who don’t want them are unworthy people.
Stay away from people and places where you don’t feel wanted. Or appreciated. Or acknowledged.
Life is so much easier when you put yourself with people and in situations where you’re wanted.
People who like you and want you will make you feel good. Go with them. Godspeed.
7. Talk Less. Listen More.
(This is a really hard one.) But talking is exhausting.
It’s easier to listen. You don’t work so hard. And you learn things.
When you listen you can see the person for who he is. You can see what he has to offer. You can see what he doesn’t.
Masculine men appreciate women who listen ... so listen up, girls! Show him respect by appreciating his ideas and what he gives you.
Your rewards will be enormous.
In more ways than you can imagine.
Believe me.
