Being totally different in what you do with your lives but knowing that you both want to be happy, content, satisfied, and worry free will make your worlds become one. The freshness of when you first met will be ever present. The fun you had together before the kids, the expenses, and hectic work schedules will come freely every time you are.
Men, you need to say you’re sorry. We love it when you say you’re sorry and meet us at that emotional level. It makes us feel safe and secure with a man that can show his love in many ways. You also, will be so much more satisfied if you try to keep things simple, like in the beginning: roses, chocolates, sweet notes, and a soft kiss on the nose.
It’s simple: we must not allow the world around us to suck us into its craziness. Our relationship (as it was before) must be our safe haven. Forget cynicism, judging, mocking, and lying. Have the guts to love freely like when you were a teen. Sure, your heart got broken, but did you stop loving? No. The innocence in you kept fighting for what you believed to be love. By making your home (relationship) a safe, warm, welcoming place, your husband will be happy making you happy, your children will be independent; your home will become a universe you’ve created with wisdom.
Women, by keeping up with the things you love to do you’ll be content with what you accomplish as a woman making you desirable because a content and satisfied woman is very attractive and sexy. And what can be more flattering and uplifting than being exceptionally wanted by your spouse or partner? Nothing.
