Meet My Friend, Jesus: A Journey to Developing a Close, Personal Relationship with God

By: Kimberly Carnevale (View Profile)

Have you ever noticed a time in your life when things just kept going from bad to worse? No matter how much you fought against the situation, you always came up feeling defeated? When we continue to resist challenges and change, we do ourselves a huge disservice as, inevitably, many more challenges confront us until we finally submit to them and learn what we are meant to. It is only then that we are “promoted” to the next level of blessings that God has in store for us.

I believe that God has led me down this path for a reason. Through my adversity, I’ve been led to a new career as a motivational speaker. Through this experience, I was inspired to start my own ministry (The Canine and Abled Ministry). I’ve been given a voice, and a passion to fulfill my mission.

Not only am I teaching about the wonderful benefits of service dogs, but I’m sharing my spiritual experiences with others, and inviting them to reach out to God so that He may work wonders in their lives as well. What an honor that is! To be up on a stage in order to share the glory of His love with others is a great reward for my fortitude and faith through adversity.

Our Thoughts, Our Reality
Our lives are shaped by our thoughts. And thoughts are such powerful things! By thinking negatively, we block out the ability of God’s love to penetrate the darkness and alleviate our problems. Alternatively, when we turn to God on a regular basis, and especially in times of turmoil, we have the faith and ability to remain calm in the storms of our lives. This calmness enables us to take advantage of opportunities that He sends our way—ones that we often miss when we are too caught up in negative thoughts and worry.

Dear God ... I want it NOW!
Our society is one that demands things immediately. Instant gratification is the sign of our times; but that isn’t God’s timing at all. When our prayers are not instantaneously answered (as if by some magic genie), we get soured, thinking that God did not hear our prayer, or care to answer us.

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posted: 04.04.2008
Sherry R.
Thank you Kimberly for taking the time to write a note to me. I understand what you're saying, I do. I have so many self help books and books on positive thinking its unbelievable. I am saying to you though, and I think this is something allot of people experience, and that is while trying to be positive, things just come against you, constantly, and it gets tiring. I don't know if I lack sleep but I am tired, I feel mentally and physically drained. EVERYTIME I pick myself up, and dust myself off and decide OK, I will try again, I get pushed back, its for ever 1 step it feels like a million back. Its hard, and I know nothing is easy in this life but, I will try what you recommended, I really will. I guess I have a fear of the future which I know I know I shouldn't be. I just am afraid to hope for anything, cause I don't want to feel that disappointment anymore.
posted: 04.03.2008
Kimberly Carnevale
(Start by reading next post first!)....As I was saying, Thoughts are such powerful things! You can read all about this in another one of my articles, "Our Thoughts Are Our Reality" on www.KimberlyCarnevale.com I touch on this very subject in that article. I want you to try something, okay? Take a sheet of paper and on one side, write all the negative thoughts you told yourself today. Take the other side, and record the positive ones. If your dialog is anything like your post, I would guess that the positive statments might be quite a bit shorter than the negative. You are what you think. If you think negatively, negative things will happen. Alternatively, YOU have the power to change all that! YOU can decide to be happy; practice your positive self talk and make it happen. EXPECT good things! t What have you got to lose? Try it for a week, and I guarantee you'll be writing back to me telling me about all the wonderful things that are starting to happen in your life!
posted: 04.03.2008
Kimberly Carnevale
Hi, Sherry; I'm going to create two posts here, as there's not enough space so bear with me. There is nothing wrong with you. We are all at our own pace in our Walk, so don't compare yourself to others. You seem very negative in your post. Negativity blocks the ability of God to work in your life. I went through the exact same thing; but learning how to be still and enjoy THIS very moment is what pulled me through. Don't project into the future--all we have is NOW. Simply BE in this exact moment. It takes practice, but it's worth it! Work really hard at remaining nonreactive in upsetting situations, and "listen" to what your inner self is trying to reveal to you (again, takes practice!). You won't be able to hear it if you are playing the negative thoughts over and over though. We ARE our thoughts. But we can control them; speak good things over your life, even if you don't believe it at first! "Fake it till ya make it!"
posted: 04.03.2008
Sherry R.
I read stories like this all the time, my situation is not even 1% of what you have gone through, and I wonder sometimes what is wrong with me? why can't I see the good in my situations. I think it is because after 8 years of trials, I am tired and can't handle anymore. There has been so much loss and trials that I don't feel like I have the strength to fight anymore. Is something wrong with me? Why can't I see the good in the bad? I blame god for everything, I didn't have to be negative for the bad stuff to happen, why do I need to be positive for good things to happen? I just am tired of people saying hold on, have faith, when everything around me comes tumbling down everytime something seems to go right, a million things go wrong. I just don't see it. I wish I could. I just don't.
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