Meet My Friend, Jesus: A Journey to Developing a Close, Personal Relationship with God

By: Kimberly Carnevale (View Profile)

Quite the opposite is true! God hears every prayer; but it is not up to us how it is answered. He is working behind the scenes in our lives, doing things that we can’t even imagine; putting things together in His own perfect timing. When we get frustrated and give up by thinking negatively, we cancel out all the good He was trying to accomplish ... and then we have the nerve to blame God!

In order to get “in sync” with God, we have to trust Him ... in good times and in bad. He is there for us in every moment of our lives, but many of us only call on Him when there is a dire need; forgetting to maintain a relationship with him on a day to day basis.

God wants to be part of everything and every day in our lives! He wants to be invited in to share your triumphs, and comfort through the tragedies. He wants to rejoice with us, mourn with us, and support us. He wants to be our friend; and this is the part that I really keyed in on--God wants to be my friend. How cool is that?! The all-powerful creator of the Universe wants to be MY friend! Imagine missing out on that opportunity!

I invited God into my heart after my accident in 1998. Up until then, I’d attended church, but didn’t really have a close relationship with Him, because I didn’t know how; or even knew it was possible, for that matter.

After my accident, I had a near-death experience. I came back to “this life” with lessons that I know He’s been prompting me to share. I have the need to share my experiences with others; and encourage them to invite God into their lives and watch their dreams take wing.

Speaking to faith-based groups is one of my most favorite things to do! I feel as though I’m not speaking, but that I’m being spoken through. It is in those times that an indescribable joy like no other bubbles up and overwhelms me when I share His good deeds in my life—and I have learned that this is how I am to know that I am using the talents that He has instilled in me to his Glory.

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posted: 04.04.2008
Sherry R.
Thank you Kimberly for taking the time to write a note to me. I understand what you're saying, I do. I have so many self help books and books on positive thinking its unbelievable. I am saying to you though, and I think this is something allot of people experience, and that is while trying to be positive, things just come against you, constantly, and it gets tiring. I don't know if I lack sleep but I am tired, I feel mentally and physically drained. EVERYTIME I pick myself up, and dust myself off and decide OK, I will try again, I get pushed back, its for ever 1 step it feels like a million back. Its hard, and I know nothing is easy in this life but, I will try what you recommended, I really will. I guess I have a fear of the future which I know I know I shouldn't be. I just am afraid to hope for anything, cause I don't want to feel that disappointment anymore.
posted: 04.03.2008
Kimberly Carnevale
(Start by reading next post first!)....As I was saying, Thoughts are such powerful things! You can read all about this in another one of my articles, "Our Thoughts Are Our Reality" on www.KimberlyCarnevale.com I touch on this very subject in that article. I want you to try something, okay? Take a sheet of paper and on one side, write all the negative thoughts you told yourself today. Take the other side, and record the positive ones. If your dialog is anything like your post, I would guess that the positive statments might be quite a bit shorter than the negative. You are what you think. If you think negatively, negative things will happen. Alternatively, YOU have the power to change all that! YOU can decide to be happy; practice your positive self talk and make it happen. EXPECT good things! t What have you got to lose? Try it for a week, and I guarantee you'll be writing back to me telling me about all the wonderful things that are starting to happen in your life!
posted: 04.03.2008
Kimberly Carnevale
Hi, Sherry; I'm going to create two posts here, as there's not enough space so bear with me. There is nothing wrong with you. We are all at our own pace in our Walk, so don't compare yourself to others. You seem very negative in your post. Negativity blocks the ability of God to work in your life. I went through the exact same thing; but learning how to be still and enjoy THIS very moment is what pulled me through. Don't project into the future--all we have is NOW. Simply BE in this exact moment. It takes practice, but it's worth it! Work really hard at remaining nonreactive in upsetting situations, and "listen" to what your inner self is trying to reveal to you (again, takes practice!). You won't be able to hear it if you are playing the negative thoughts over and over though. We ARE our thoughts. But we can control them; speak good things over your life, even if you don't believe it at first! "Fake it till ya make it!"
posted: 04.03.2008
Sherry R.
I read stories like this all the time, my situation is not even 1% of what you have gone through, and I wonder sometimes what is wrong with me? why can't I see the good in my situations. I think it is because after 8 years of trials, I am tired and can't handle anymore. There has been so much loss and trials that I don't feel like I have the strength to fight anymore. Is something wrong with me? Why can't I see the good in the bad? I blame god for everything, I didn't have to be negative for the bad stuff to happen, why do I need to be positive for good things to happen? I just am tired of people saying hold on, have faith, when everything around me comes tumbling down everytime something seems to go right, a million things go wrong. I just don't see it. I wish I could. I just don't.
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