The moral, believe it or not is that men are more concerned with how you get along with each other on a vacation, in hopes that if the chemistry is right, the atmosphere a vacation can provide could create the mood for sex. Rich has the right idea and isn’t alone in the way he approached it. Bottom line: If you’re taking a vacation with a guy and haven’t had sex with him yet, he’ll prove how good a guy he is by making you feel comfortable and make what otherwise would be an issue—a non-issue.
Finally, I was ready to give my friend Mike some educated advice: Not only should he pick a fun destination for his first vacation with his girlfriend, but be sure to reserve a couple of rooms—just in case she decides how lucky he will be!
Post Script:
Mike decided to take his, now girlfriend, to Telluride for a four-day weekend vacation. They stayed in a rustic cabin just outside the city. In another sign of how much he cares about her, I didn’t get many details on the “issue” that apparently was at hand but is no longer. He did tell me that when she found out he had rented a couple of cabins, she thought it was sweet but she asked him to cancel the extra one. Their cabin was the one with a view—and a “do not disturb” sign on the door!
By Kent Rogers
