10 Tips for Wandering Women

By: Stephanie Elizondo Griest (View Profile)

 
3. Feminine Hygiene. A friend once traveled the developing world for nearly two years with a single device—a menstrual cup—and swears it is the greatest contribution to womankind. Simply insert it into your vagina and empty it a couple of times each day. No strings, no wings! Another friend eliminates her menses altogether by taking Depo-Provera, a shot of progestin that can prevent ovulation for intervals of up to three months. Otherwise, pack O.B.s or other non-applicator tampons, which take half the space of regular tampons and are less likely to be tampered with by customs agents searching for drugs. Chances are, you’ll be able to buy tampons abroad, but if you’re picky or have a heavy cycle (as in, only super-absorbency-plus will suffice) bring your own.

 
4. Money Storage. Some travelers sew little pockets on the insides of their clothes; others stash emergency bills and contact information in their bras or shoes. I advocate spreading the wealth. I usually keep a copy of my passport, a couple of traveler’s checks, and some money in a hidden waist belt, then store the critical documents (passport, airline tickets, credit cards, bulk of money and traveler’s checks) in a hidden thigh pouch. If theft is a serious problem in your destination, carry a decoy purse—that is, something to hand over in case of a robbery.

Before you leave, give a trusted friend a folder containing your itinerary, contact information, and copies of your passport, visas, driver’s license, traveler’s checks, and credit cards. Save your passport number, 1-800 credit card replacement numbers, and pertinent contact information in a folder on your email account.

 
5. Male Repellent. Some women wear fake wedding bands and carry photos of hulky men they call husbands to ward off advances. I try to learn key phrases in the local language. (“I’m meeting my boyfriend here. He is a lieutenant in the U.S. Marine Corps,” is a useful one.) Public guilt/humiliation is the best way to deal with men who molest you on crowded buses or subways. Loudly and firmly, say: “How would you like it if someone treated your wife/daughter/sister like that?” or simply: “Shame on you!” Chances are, your fellow passengers will come to your rescue. (If you turn around and slug him, they likely will not.)

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posted: 01.26.2008
Becky Reichel
The other safeguarding tip is hiding cash or travelers checks with the passport, or when in a private room (or any room I can access privately), use the screwdriver part of my Leatherman jackknife (something I would advise is a traveling ESSENTIAL) to take off an outlet or light switch faceplate and hide my cash, checks, jewelry safely in there.
posted: 01.26.2008
Becky Reichel
I don't appreciate the inauthenticity of the crying drama either. Here is a value tip from my own experience. Bring a laminated copy of the picture and data page of your passport on your travels. When in country, make a copy or two of the page with your entry visa or country stamp/date (and have that laminated or carry in plastic). Carry your actual passport as little as possible (only in between destinations) and be sure to secure it somewhere safe (I like Bank deposit boxes, hotel safes, placed into a plastic bag taped to the underside of furniture or buried where there is easy access and no chance of discovery or being washed away). The laminating your essential passport pages ensures preservation during long period of perspiration, from getting caught in downpours and soaked to the skin, from being lost or stolen. I have found that law enforcement, bankers, merchants and even lawyers or military will accept this laminated copy for transactions and ID.
posted: 12.03.2007
Wander Woman
Amanda said it best when she said travelling alone is as good as it gets. I found a curious local is much more likely to approach a person travelling solo than a group. I have had the priviledge of being invited into the homes of local families even without speaking their language. In Malaysia I was treated to the hospitality of a family who prepared a virtual feast including sampling of most of the local cuisine. The parents vacated their sleeping quarters for me and hung blankets to provide privacy. Their bathroom, a hole in the cement floor of a smal enclosure, featured the added luxury of footprints in the cement that placed one in the best position for hitting the target!
posted: 12.03.2007
Wander Woman
Thanks for offering your experiences as useful information for travellers and providing a site where we can exchange stories and learn from others' encounters. Another safe place in most parts of the world is the local place of worship. I have never been turned away from a church, synagogue or temple.
posted: 07.30.2007
Jane Dobbs
Regarding #5: In my experience, completely ignorning these kinds of men usually works. Whenever I've responded to their harrassment it's only heightened the situation and made it worse. I'd suggest giving them a blank stare and moving on. I'm not sure pretending you're married makes the most sense.
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