Salon Owner and Her Female Staff Seek Your Advice on Hiring a Male to Work as a Female

By: Dawny Dame (View Profile)

Dear Ladies,

My name is Susan and I am a former female executive that just purchased a salon and spa in Waterbury, Connecticut.

Just recently a man came in to ask if he could work there as a female.

I said you don’t look like one, but with some help, we can change that.

He replied, yes do so and I want you to force feminize me to your standards and I will agree to any previous terms and conditions, well, needlessly to say, he agreed and I am dominant anyway, I will oblige and will not relent, but I am seeking advice from all females on this site as I am making a list of what would be necessary to totally and completely feminize her from head to toe, not just including the beauty treatments but figure development, mind training, etc.

If you have any suggestions at all and can see my point that I must, now that I’ve committed to this, not relent as this gentleman asked for it and SHE will get what SHE asked for and then some.

What do you feel should be the most extreme makeover for this new FEMALE employee, who I do want to hire but my standards are high and I am going to go with my vote, my staffs vote and all of your votes to compile a list of everything SHE would be demanded to go through in writing or SHE will not be hired.

Do you think I should just do it without it being in writing or not?

Your thoughts, recommendations and advice is greatly appreciated.

We are also having an in person Ladies Only Luncheon to introduce our spa and “Pamela,” which is what we not consider HER and the ladies attending will also vote and make suggestions. Should SHE be given options or no options or should I make all the suggestions that we agree upon by majority rule a condition of her being hired?

Thank you all very much for your time, if you are ever in the area, please stop in for one or more of our services. We also rent the spa out for Ladies Only parties, theme parties with food are available and you may raise a little hell on your Girl Getaways, after all, what happens in Connecticut, stays in Connecticut.

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posted: 09.08.2008
Sissy Shannon
Hi Dawny Dame, What is the status of your Pamela? Did you ever go thorugh with this?
posted: 02.09.2008
Debra Morgan
Susan, You must do this. Hire her. I am looking for the exact same thing. I am a hetero male crossdresser. I wish to develop my feminine side to the point where I can live as a woman on weekends. I would loove to work as a receptionist in a beauty salon. I would even trade my time for salon services. I wish you were in the midwest. My greatest desire is to interact with other women as a woman. Pamela will be a great employee. To give you an example, I love to wear tailored skirt suits, silky blouses and to wear complete makeup and jewelry. I love heels. If Pamela is like me she will love to be completely feminized. If she can appear female permanently, give her a perm, a female cut with highlights and long painted nails. Get her ears pierced and have her wear hoops. Have her wear a skirt suit with a name tag and matching complete lingerie underneath. High heels are a must. Treat her exactly as you would treat one of your girlfriends. Write back. Debra
posted: 11.29.2007
Dawny Dame
Would it be beneficial for a female owned/staffed business to hire a cross dressing male? To provide a discreet salon where C/D, T/V, and T/S can feel comfortable, be pampered, and not have to worry about discrimination. This cross dresser will demonstrate my staff and my acceptance of alternative life styles. “SHE” asked to be feminized having been a cross dresser for years. Per an Agreement, I made the decision to push her in the right direction and have every intention to feminize her. What do you think we should do for HER FEMINIZATION? My staff and I feel comfortable around cross dressers so her feminization provides a unique challenge. She had requested feminization at other salons, but did not follow through. This cross dresser needs someone to demand that the transformation be left entirely in our hands and make any demands that we want. Thank you all and I look forward to all of your feedback and advice on this. Sincerely, Sue
posted: 11.28.2007
Mistress Cristian
For some men , also women , they seek great satisfaction in servitude. For them it is an outlet and believe it r not, it is far more common then you would believe
posted: 11.28.2007
JD Withehld
My number one question/concern is WHY this person whats to submit to this in this way?! Does he normally live as a woman ro has he come to you because he has wanted to and did not knwo how ot go about it. OR is this some trick or perverted joke being played upon you for some odd reason we do not know of! As glad as I am to see a person open minded enough to do somehting of this magnitude, I can not help but wonder what his motives are for asking you to do this!!!
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