My Purse, My Essentials

By: Amanda Shutts (View Profile)

I have a not-so-secret obsession with purses and bags, as an observer of my closet would note. All the purses I own are similar in size; I purchase them knowing that I need a certain amount of space. I change my purse frequently. Why, one might ask? Well, I was asked that same question not long ago, but the question included the contents of my purse and why I carry those things.

This got me thinking about purses. In very general terms, I think every woman has an accessory that is perfect for her style, her image, and, on a higher level, her comfort. Some women may choose a belt, the perfect pair of shoes, a pair of earrings, or a scarf or a purse. In my case, as well as many others, the perfect accessory is a purse. You can add a splash of color, drama, or sophistication with such a simple utilitarian item. However, there are women who do not agree. So I decided to take a semi-scientific approach to determine whether purses were considered an essential accessory or just a necessity. My first step was to locate a group of women, diverse in cultural backgrounds, and ranging in ages from nineteen to fifty-eight. I would interview them, asking a series of questions—five, maybe six in all—to find out about purses and what we keep in them.

My task was fairly easy: I know a lot of women and they graciously agreed to talk with me about the secrets inside their purses. The first and foremost question—do you carry a purse? Twenty-four out of the twenty-five I interviewed said “Yes.” The one who did report “no” actually carries a backpack of sorts and did not consider it a purse, but it’s pretty close if you ask me. To illustrate this point, please see the definitions. According to Random House Unabridged Dictionary, a purse is a bag or box of leather, fabric, plastic, or the like, held in the hand or carried by means of a handle or strap, commonly used by women for holding money, toilet articles, small purchases, etc. A bag is a container or receptacle of leather, plastic, cloth, paper, etc., capable of being closed at the mouth or pouch. So either way, it’s pretty close. 

The second and third questions were—do you change your purse frequently, and why? Seven of the women, age range forty-five to fifty-eight, said they change seasonally. Sixteen, age range of nineteen to thirty, said they change daily or weekly to match their outfits, and the rest said “No, only when the bag gets beyond repair.” Fourth and final question—what five items do you always carry with you and what is their significance? Not so surprisingly, they all had similar items: keys, wallets because they needed money, checkbooks, credit cards, and their cell phones so that they could be in communication, take a photo, or just pretend to be talking to someone. 

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posted: 09.03.2008
elizabeth
thank you, i really enjoyed your story and it made me think about what i carry & what it says about me. I may not change my purse every week or even every month but i have found as i've gotten older that my "wants" in a bag have changed over the past 20 years. keep up to great stories!
posted: 09.03.2008
Jae Brown
Congrats on your 1st article. I too am a Divine Caroline writer and would encourage you to read my stories, which are based on my children. I could tell your son means the world to you. He, for my part, became the focal point of the story. Even tho your subject was purses...he seemed to be much more interesting. I love your style of writing and hope to read more from you. Keep up the good work.
posted: 08.27.2008
Mrs.Virsu
Hi, congrats on writing your first story. i loved it. i am new to this website. i really enjoyed your story. i carry a purse and i change it every few months. i pick purses that match my style and are colors i like and blend easly to any outfit. i always carry house keys and wallet , mine has no money too. lol. and i always carry lip balm and lip color, not lipstick but just lip gloss and stuff. i also have excredin migriane, that stuff works so good.
posted: 08.04.2008
Robbie Delgado
Congratulations Amanda you have entered the publishing world! Your story was very well written and kept my interest. It was exciting to know that many of our friends were able to participate and give you input on their contents. I smiled to myself about the one with the tissue knowing this info... Well good luck to you and can't wait to keep reading on. Robbie
posted: 08.04.2008
Renee
Congrats on your first published story! I love it! I believe we judge others by their purse/handbag to some degree.... sounds a bit shallow but we all do it, to some degree. I also believe the contents of the purse changes as you go through stages in life... like your toy cars and zip lock bags with spiderman band-aids because you're a mom. I used to have my iPod and notebooks when I was in school and now it's all about make up to look decent for work. But I will never leave the tissues behind, no matter where I am in life, I know the minute I don't pack my tissues I'll need it!!
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