What I Learned About Owning My Career

By: Caroline Wilbert (View Profile)

She met with an executive coach who helped her sort out her priorities. Menzies realized her life didn’t reflect her true priorities, so she made changes. She moved from New York to Atlanta, met a guy, and had two kids. She still loves her job, but now sets boundaries. For instance, she leaves every day at 4:30 to pick her children.

After the session, Tina and I snuck into the lobby to stretch our legs. Tina said the panelists made her feel more confident about her decision to switch jobs.

“Good for you!” I said. I too was feeling positive—proud that I have landed a job which allows me flexibility, and happy I spent my own twenties working long and unpredictable newspaper hours. Those jobs were fun, and I developed skills that make me marketable now. Finally, I was glad to be with Tina and Charlotte, getting to know them a bit better. After all, we working mothers have to keep reminding each other we deserve to own our own careers. We’ve earned it.

 

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posted: 05.30.2007
Fee Campbell
Brilliant! What a fabulous hope fuelled chapter of wisdom and armour for all those women who are looking to capitalize on all the credentials of their past career. Although without children, but right in the flux of change myself, You have given me some courageous words to stick to my guns, follow my passion and most importantly of all realise that there is confidence - not apology - that comes from knowing inside when and where the compromise should come. Thank you.
posted: 05.22.2007
Theresa Marcarian
Excellent article and perfect timing as I'm thinking about re-entering the workforce after staying at home for 6 years. I did work hard in my 20's and have alot to offer and I needed to be reminded of it. Thank you!
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