Why is it that every business owner, sales executive, and salesperson will tell you that referrals are the best way to generate new business, and yet so few people run a one hundred percent referral-based company? This puzzled me, so when I started my company more than ten years ago, I conducted an informal poll of salespeople and business owners across many industries and asked the rather obvious question: Why are referrals so great?
Their answers made it clear they understood the value. A referred client is pre-sold. The referred salesperson or business owner has credibility and trustworthiness.The competition decreases or disappears. They end up with a new client a minimum of fifty percent—but more likely between seventy-five and ninety-five percent—of the time. Not only are referral customers more profit table, they also will be the first to give a referral to others.
It didn’t matter whether the salespeople I asked were women or men, new to their field or had been selling for twenty or thirty years. They all agreed that referral business was the most effective business development strategy, and nothing else comes close. They all had fabulous relationships with their clients, peers, associates, vendors, and friends but they were not leveraging those relationships.
Selling is about building, maintaining, and nurturing relationships, and as women, we have a remarkable advantage. We are great at making connections, asking insightful questions, and finding creative solutions to problems. We do this every day in our personal lives and easily transfer this skill to our business lives. We often get instant feelings about people upon meeting them. Yes, it’s intuition. When we trust it, we soar.
There is an immediate connection when we are referred. We can talk about the person who referred us, thereby eliminating those first uncomfortable and awkward steps of the business meeting—explaining who we are and what we do. We also eliminate the nagging question: “How am I going to begin the conversation?” It’s almost like that dreaded first date. What will the guy look like? Will I be too tall or too short? What will I talk to him about?
