Fifty and Fed Up

By: Elizabeth Stahl (View Profile)

Okay, so then off to the grocer, where the lines were quite long. I stood patiently, shifting from foot to foot waiting for the next checker to come up. He did and lo and behold, he walked up to the young lady behind me in her “I can’t lean over and pick anything up,” mini skirt and took his good old (because he was old, old enough to be her father) time ringing her two items up. When he was done, he shut off the light and took said items to her car. I was still standing in line with my basket of “I’m getting old purchases” when he returned. He didn’t open another register. He was done for the day.

I’m not asking these elder men to wave giddiness when they’re in the presence of a younger, prettier, and lest we forget, perkier woman. Go for it dude. Just don’t leave tire tracks on my back, trying to get to them. Didn’t your mama ever tell you to “respect your elders?” I don’t expect these men to flirt with me, offer to carry out my package of Twinkies, or display Cleopatra type attention onto me. Just acknowledge me, especially, when you’re taking my money and don’t call me “dear”. I’m not your dear, cupcake, honey, or sweetie pie. I’m the woman who’s going to kick your touché because my fifty is the new forty and your fifty is just old.

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posted: 09.21.2007
Patricia Clark
Oh yea, I don't like going out with girlfriends or hanging out with a lot of women. They just spend the hole time complaining about the men, weight,clothes,kids, in-law's and things that just don't interest me. I have hobby's, art and family to spend my time with. Untill some lucy 60 yr. comes along. I won't hold my breath....
posted: 09.21.2007
Patricia Clark
I loved everyword of what you said. I just turned 60 just wait till you stand in line then. I still have a lot to give and enjoy, but men now days think only young can do it for them. It makes me sick to be treated as if I'm not important or interesting now. I hate this skin and gray hair. 50 wasn't bad for me I had a lot of fun THEN. I look for my age, I get so sick of hearing that. So lady's if you want to get the men to look your way when you get older you better work you ass off keeping yourself looking good. I mean your bodys. It wil not be there for ever. One day you'll look, back up and look again, then say to yourself where did the time go. If you really work heard you can keep your legs nice, your skin tight and butt up where is beongs for a little longer than if you don't. I try to talk to myself and say it is their turn you have had your day in the sun. Someday they will be here also.
posted: 09.20.2007
Sherrolyn Mincey
Find yourself some good girlfriends who like to have a good time. Go places together and when necessary just ignore the men and their stupid comments. If you are having a good time you won't think as much about food. Go to happy hour and nibble on the goodies that are usually available and skip supper or on weekends, skip lunch. Walk the malls window shopping. They are safe, cool, and a good way to shed a few pounds. Try on clothes you don't really want to buy but just want to see how they look on you. Once you change your lifestyle, you may enjoy being 50. I am 65 now and during my 40' and 50's I had 3 girl friends and we did the above and took vacations together. You will survive this if you laugh and have a good time.
posted: 09.20.2007
Mishell Erickson
Elizabeth~ Thanks for your article, it sums up where I'm at perfectly also (even though I'm 46). It's so disheartening to deal with the lack of respect and just plain callousness. Sometimes I can't tell if my mainly indignant emotions are purely hormonal or what? There are times I feel irritated by everyone and everything, even being in my own body. And yet, there are also days when I feel utterly contented in my world and that everything is as it should be. Magical mystery tour, indeed!
posted: 09.19.2007
Cally inCA
You’re a great writer and such wit-way to take humor in those ‘annoying realities’ of the world. I can’t wait to be fifty as long as I have a perspective like yours.
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