Homelessness: Touching One Life at a Time

By: Jana Tether (View Profile)

I live in a big city. I see homeless people all the time. My heart aches for them, but like so many, I think, “What can I possibly do? I’m only one person. The problem is much bigger than me.” There would be times I’d pretend I didn’t see them, occasionally I’d give a dollar, and other times I’d go out and buy gift certificates to a fast food joint and distribute those. On the whole, I always felt inadequate.

Some of you might be thinking “Don’t feel sorry for these people they put themselves there through alcoholism, drugs, laziness, etc.” Sure, you may be right but I can’t sit there and evaluate every situation that I come across where I have someone vying for my attention. Besides, with a good part of the population living paycheck to paycheck we’re now seeing families out on the streets and hard working citizens who’ve been hit by an illness, or an adversity of some sort, and ending up with huge medical bills, and such, in which they’ve lost everything. Others are mentally ill. We don’t know their stories. It’s not our place to judge. In fact, we could easily be one of them. How would you feel then? How would you feel people passing by you as if you didn’t exist or weren’t worth anything? You may feel very secure in your situation right now but no one really knows what the future holds for them. The Bible speaks many times about helping those less fortunate than ourselves. God is big on people helping people…(Share with God’s people who are in need. Practice hospitality. Romans 12:13. “Speak up for those who cannot speak for themselves, for the rights of all who are destitute. Speak up and judge fairly; defend the rights of the poor and needy.’ Proverbs 31:8-9)… It is through us that He works. Yet, again, we ask, “What can I possibly do?”

I’m not an expert at this but my husband and I have had enough experience between us to know what can make even a little bit of difference. We’re just regular people, not moguls with lots of resources, yet we see the smiles of those who need to be noticed. One thing to point out is that it’s not necessarily about money. It’s about acknowledging another human being and valuing them. I will share what we do on our part but I do want to point out that whenever dealing with another person you should make sure you always put yourself first and protect yourself. Safety first. If you’re in a situation where you are vulnerable you may want to think twice and wait for other opportunities.

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posted: 11.02.2007
Jana Tether
Hi William, Ally, and Amanda! Thanks for your very kind comments and for reading this article! I really do appreciate it! William, you've asked a very good question...how to approach the homeless. My husband and I, provided we're in a safe situation, will go up to the person, smile and hand them the bag. We'll ask them what their name is and introduce ourselves. It's about acknowledging another.There may be a little chit chat, if time allows, then we wish them a good day. If we're in the car, it's pretty much the same thing, only a bit quicker. I've only come across one person who didn't respond in a positive manner and he looked like he was severely homeless - filthy, skinny - who looked possibly abused. This was a time I spent a bit more time praying for that person even though I didn't feel like it because of his rough manner. Still, God asks us to move forward on His behalf. I know He will touch that person's heart in one way or another. I do my bit and leave the rest up to Him.
posted: 10.22.2007
William Wakeley
Hi Jana, just wanted to thank you for your obedience to the Lord's call to love the homeless and weaker folks in this world. But for the Grace of God, any of us could be in a similar situation. I have experience a very sharp drop in income in the past nine months (after heart surgery) and my wife of 48 years has been diagnosed with liver disease. We are ready to do whatever the Lord might ask of us and certainly know we have a mansion awaiting when His timing says "Come". I was wondering just how to approach the homeless and your plastic bag handout sounds like a great way to show His love to them. You really could call them "Glad Bags", couldn't you? I also enjoyed your story about finding Nature. His Creation sure is wonderful and always brings me closer to Him. Thanks for sharing your stories. We all need to tell and hear the Good News.
posted: 10.11.2007
Ally
Thanks Jana, if more people acted like you and your husband this world would be a nicer place to live. There are good deeds and good intentions and you practice both, bless you for that.
posted: 10.02.2007
Amanda Coggin
Every time I get caught up in my own personal drama it is a reminder to get to the homeless shelter where my two best friends/neighbors and I go volunteer. Thanks for reminding me again!
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