The Hard Requirements of “Home” Life

By: Kaye Webb (View Profile)

In 2000, I had the opportunity to spend a few days in the village of Koular in Senegal, West Africa. My husband had spent three Peace Corps years there, and we went back to visit this place he grew to love. In some respects, life is hard there. Labor in the fields is backbreaking without modern machinery. Education is limited, particularly for girls. Health care is minimal. There is no phone, electricity, or air-conditioned reprieve from the hot, humid days and nights. A deep hole in the ground is the toilet, and water is hauled regularly from a well in plastic buckets.

Despite the challenges of living there, all someone has to do is tap on the end of one of those buckets and a whole group of people are dancing and laughing, full of fun and silliness. It was completely refreshing. No bills, no deadlines, no car inspections, no car!

Americans often snub their noses at less technologically developed communities, but comparing the quality of life between them and us is like apples to oranges. I often wonder if the homeless man on the bus in Iowa City would have had a better life in Koular. I look forward to the day my family and I can return to Koular for a nice, long visit.

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posted: 07.19.2007
Beverly Murrelle
"I often wonder if the homeless man on the bus in Iowa City would have had a better life in Koular." Like you, I've wondered about circumstances of which you speak. Sometimes I'm actually wondering if WE all would have a better life. Not really. But think about it. People have to pull together to survive. They all join forces. We are going out on our own more and more as individuals, not having time for each other. This is an eyeopener, an incredibly good write, and a motivator for reading more of your articles. Thanks for printing it.
posted: 06.13.2007
Lesley Nicholls
What a great piece! It was a pleasure to read, and it gave me a lot to think about.
It feels good to write.

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